define relationship? im having a relationship with my sweet book collection. but in other respects i am a singular unit.

several.

Ben harper, a small intimate affair with the people i love most, in the crest of winter at a private residence with an awesome band and a beautiful french/niuean dinner, shots of red, moonlight and candle light, dancing in the dark under the light of the stars,midnight hot tubbing, overflowing pinot noir and whisky - everyone staying the night with us and talking, dancing, singing until the early morning. a picnic brunch follows with pain au chocolat , italian hot chocolate, my mothers freshly baked bread and tonnes of earl grey a swing band, petanque and laughter in the still arctic brightness of the hills of wellington. -perfection-

define happiness. im yet to get my head around that basic part of this question.

someone said that i stood out like i was wrapped in unicorn fur, which initially dosent seem that great. but think about it... it will grow on you.

most people that spend time with me know i have a slight obsession with birds, i have feathers in my hair, i wear various jewelery representing birds and so on and so on. but there is a deeper meaning, a tie in to my culture, a reference to a nickname given to me from someone i loved dearly and who is sadly not with me anymore, a tie to a romantic love lost who changed the way i thought and felt about other people, creativity and the potential of my existence, a future where my wings will be outstretched, a nod to a design movement that colors the undercurrents of much of my design, my writing and my photography and a sentiment echoed in so many of the books i love, that sit dog eared by my bedside. it may have seemed flippant but it wasn't. and even these words don't express the weight that i give them..

yes i am single

depends who you are.. if your who i hope you are then yes, yes i am keen ben harper.

there is more than one sadly, but my grandfather is a big one. i carry him with me every day, i miss him dearly.

robots that steal my money while i sleep.

like petrol? yeah - duh! daughter of a hot rodder bro.

using its nose to devour something whole,something that

depends.. do you aspire to have some sort of UTI/STD? cause if you do.. then go you - life is AWESOME.

umm a mixture of being awesome with yourself and then using that awesomeness to live and awesome life, then being with someone awesome. basically... be more like me.

I find lots of people interesting, foucault was pretty cool... is that what you meant?

what i want from life is more life please, and everything is pretty exciting at the moment. scary.. but exciting.

sadly the rumour is not true, although amber if you were a true friend you would make this happen.. if you love me that is. before anyone else feels the need to ask, i also did not cure cancer, marry the sea or be a fly dancer.. but again people feel free to make these things happen.

im guessing this is someone from the wellys crew? no i didint do sg (suicide girls) heaps of my friends did as soon as they turned 18, i also didnt do gods girls or anything even vaguely similar... it kind of worries me that you assume i would have do i give off the "i pose naked on the internet for money" vibe? or was it just cause bunny and the rest of them did it you assumed i had? not that i have a problem with my body or nudity i do have slight concerns about how SG was marketed as something it wasnt though and how badly it burnt people like apnea/lithium picnic and.. bunny.

like of all time or that i know? or on twitter? or sexually? or to ask to a pancake breakfast? or to like.. escape peru with after a failed jewel heist?

girl - girl being @amberlicity