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      after my britney spears days, i decided not to have crushes on celebs. I did have a small crush on my old neighbor...

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      cjay858 responded to Shay143 20 Dec 10

      hmm...something nice yet simple...house on the beach, a dog, being(eating?) healthy, active, social & helping to changing lives :D

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      funny i was just thinking about this, and had a funny rant inside my head about how a girls "look" can change so drastically with make up...to a point where to me things start seeming "fake"

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      1. Go way back to see how jesus really was...it'd be nice to see that "proof".
      2. I'd wanna live in the Italian Renaissance, not exactly sure where or when yet...
      3. I'd like to see what it was like growing up in the Philippines with my great great grandparents...
      4. I'd do high school all over again...knowing what i know now...
      5. I'd go back to NY on 9/11 & see if i could foil the terrorist somehow...

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      learn to view all outcomes, from success to failures...as a growth experience and an opportunity to learn more about how unique your life experience is compared to the other 7billion...and then to be able to appreciate them as much as you appreciate your own blood & family...that we are all interrelated...those are the two most empowering mindsets that i've learned as an adult...

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      While I won't get into any personal details...the beginning 80 percent of my life, my deepest fears were based on my fear of "failure". The latest 20 percent is ironically realizing I had some kind of fears of "success" and what WOULD HAPPEN if my latest and greatest dreams actually happen. I guess it was fears of what my life would be like with so many opportunities available, and wondering If i'm making the "right" decisions.

      So in short, I'd say the challenge is actually something that is lifelong for all of us...facing life's uncertainties and maintaining a healthy attitude towards living "the good life".

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      cjay858 responded to enelle 5 May 10

      I would...but long distance running isn't my natural talent. I'm a sprinter. If i ran it, it would be a personal challenge, cross off the bucket list kind of thing...and i wouldn't really be outwardly competitive about my "time". I'd enjoy it for myself, and I'd try to see if I can do it without taking a walking break

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      cjay858 responded to MikeyCando 1 May 10

      Life is a game of both taking risks, and basking in comfort & safety. Do poorly on risk taking & breaking out of your comfort zone, then life will be more mundane that you may want it to be. "Failure" is all part of the journey & path to "success". Also... "success" is fleeting...gotta keep doing your thang and make life Fresh while your at it

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      "hello" is the best one really. I just don't do the tacky lines like: "what's yo name, what's yo sign, can I creep up from behind?" & "You are so selfish! You're going to have that body the rest of your life and I just want it for one night"

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      i don't think so. But i also don't think its just black and white, yes or no. How significant is the secret? The ideal is to have a clean slate.

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      i read recently that a male bee, dies after an intense intercourse session with the queen bee. I guess a part of me is curious to know how that would be like :)

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      rich, fame aint all that to me. rich, i can help my relatives in the P.I

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      freeze time because I like seeing the "big picture". Like lets say new years eve when the ball drops, i'd freeze everyone, and just go see all the crazy things going on. I wouldn't mess around, just witness

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