Dear threes company,

Everything is good for you except for cell phones and diet coke. Threesomes are great for you, assuming you know how to use them. On the other hand, entering into that sort of sexual behaviour when you aren't totally prepared can be far more dangerous than aspartame.

People who find themselves proposing threesomes usually have some sort of emotional disconnect when it comes to sex. It is crucial that anyone who is going to participate in a threesome, find that disconnect. This is especially important if you're involved in any sort of long term or potentially long term relationship. If you can look at your husband, wife, boyfriend, or cat, performing felatio on another person without seeing it as a form of infidelity, you're ready. Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending on how you want to look at it, most of us could never do that.

Sexual experimentation with two or more people isn't unnatural and it isn't inherently dangerous. I don't think it's healthy for a person to live their life without a certain amount of variety. I'm not saying go out and find a tranny or get involved in threesomes, but sexual stagnation is unhealthy. Mix things up. Threesomes aren't for everyone but if it works for you, it could be just what you need.

Thanks for writing,
Chuck.