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      If this is from who I think it's from, I really miss you too. We need to go back to the bridge and go swimming again.

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      in terms of actually putting it together i used adobe in design. i created a booklet with a rough idea of the number of pages and then just added the information i wanted. it's pretty simple once you get used to it. i plan on using cut and paste stuff in the future though. i like that better.

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      i can completely identify with this. i am pretty overwhelmed myself. i would love to meet you there and be as supportive as i can. please feel free to e-mail me and i can give you my cell phone number, so we can get in touch (catsluck@riseup.net).

      if you're feeling like it's too much for you to go, don't put yourself in an unsafe place. there are other ways to face these issues as well.

      i hope you're okay and even though i don't know you, i'm here for you if you need anything.

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      Agreed! You should e-mail me your address. I want to write you letters.

      catsluck@riseup.net

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      I’ve been non-monogamous for the past year or so. In my experience, non-monogamous relationships can be just as hard as monogamous ones in terms of jealousy, but I think that non-monogamy is more honest and realistic. I don't agree that one person can fulfill everything that you need in a partner or that you should have to limit your emotional/sexual/etc. desires. Also, I am completely against the idea of someone being "yours" or you being "someone’s," if that makes sense.

      In terms of monogamy, I think that there is a difference between forced monogamy (involving restrictions on each others actions) and monogamy that just occurs because you and your partner do not have other partners at the time. Even though I prefer non-monogamy, I think that monogamy that isn’t forced makes sense to me too.

      I am completely for the idea of strong communication and honesty between partners, while still being able to explore emotional/sexual/etc. needs and desires.

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      I got your response! You should e-mail me though just to make sure (catsluck@riseup.net)

      Thanks so much for the support. What are your favorite colors?

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