Tse!

Okay girl, calm down. Unnecessary insecurity/jealousy is never healthy. First things first, how long have they been together and how long has it been since the two of them broke up?

If they have been together for a year or more and it's been less than a year since they broke up, chances are, your bf would still have some feelings left for his ex. There's this unsaid rule that says, a person SHOULD NOT DATE (or court or entertain) anyone just yet for AT LEAST 3 MONTHS after the break-up to avoid rebound relationships. If they broke up more than a year already, there's a possibility that he has already moved on.

Here are some signs that he hasn't moved on just yet:

- He keeps on mentioning his ex almost all the time (even w/o you asking anything about her): how she laughs, how she cries, how they hold hands, how good she cooks, how pretty she is, her favorite colors, songs, tv shows, etc.

- He compares you to her AND wants you to be like her.
Examples: "My ex writes me love letters, why don't you do it?" "My ex likes wearing pink, you should wear them too."

- They still contact each other AND he hides their exchanged text messages, chats, letters, etc. from you and if you caught him, he would deny them or would even get mad at you. Just think, if it's just "nothing" why would he hide it?

- Whenever he hears their "theme song", he would cringe or his eyes would look sad or he looks hurt.

- Whenever he sees her ex with a new guy, he goes nuts and would say that he is better than that guy.

- He keeps on stalking (or browsing) his ex's Facebook profile.

- Whenever you say something bad about that girl, (e.g. "She is not really THAT pretty." "I don't like her attitude." "Hindi kayo bagay.") he would get mad at you and even protect her from you as if she's his girlfriend and not you.

- He mentions that his ex is better than you (in general or in bed).


If these symptoms are not enough for you to believe me, I don't know. In case they happen, it's up to you now if you'll let yourself be his rebound girlfriend. You know what you're worth. Don't settle for less 'cause you deserve the best. You should be the ONLY choice, and not just an option.

Good luck, Miss. :)