Need your opinion for a SEXpress column! A reader asks: "Is showing a very large bulge considered offensive? I can't pack it down much and jeans always fade around that area, highlighting it." Thoughts? Tips for a less conspicuous bulge?
hmmmm.. OK, I'll jump over the notion of it being offensive (or not) and talk about going for less conspicuous.
I pack with a medium packy (mr. limpy style) and if I want to be less conspicuous, I can push it down in my briefs a bit farther than normal. If someone is hard-packing, it's almost impossible to be inconspicuous.
You can use a smaller packer, jeans/pants that fit less tightly, long shirts that hang over your crotch, etc. I'm mostly pretty conspicuous, even if I'm riding a little lower.
As to the offensiveness of a large bulge, that depends on context. If you're concerned, don't wear it on Easter Sunday, or around people who would be offended. My daily packer isn't terribly huge, but if I wanted to go for it and wear a hard-packer, I would... but not to work. For me, that's more of a going out on the town look. One of the benefits of having an 'after market' cock is you can choose the size, and change the size, to fit your mood of the moment.
