I'm a size queen when it comes to my toys, not my cocks. Do I prefer large, girthy toys? Yes. Do I prefer large, girthy cocks? Not necessarily. Cocks and toys are different; a large cock ends up irritating me more, actually. In fact, I'm someone that repeatedly states that size doesn't matter.

http://britisshameless.com/2008/08/size-queen/
http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/

And some of the best sex I've ever had was with the smallest partner I've ever been with.

So sorry, but I don't see anything incongruent about that.