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Yes, I avoid using slang and expressions. I also do that for non-American English speakers when I detect that sort of language misunderstanding. I may also avoid using less frequently used words.
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I have met wonderful and amazing sexually open and honest from twitter in real life. I didn't intend that. I just happen to go places and meet them. Some are now good friends in my life.
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I can see how technology can be used to make this possible.
I am not sure I understand the intent behind the statement that a "Dom should be available to their sub as much as possible". I can see in a high control relationship that this is a requirement but my relationships aren't like that. I don't want to manage day to day affairs of others.
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Rope, rope, rope, rope. Did I say rope? I did. :-) Why? It is the kink I have been playing with for years and you can do so many things with rope.
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I treat famous people the way I treat other busy people. They are people and I make my plans accordingly. I would continue my special plans with my S O plans unless this new twist would make things special to my S O too.
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Uh huh!
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I was in a situation where my housemate and I were held at gunpoint. He didn't have a clue that we needed to run and I could have to avoid it. I stayed, dealt with them and got hurt in the process.
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In the past I sucked at ending relationships that were one sided like this. I tended to lead them on and evade the difficult decision. I would distance myself in ways and eventually end it badly.
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I do good things for good people and sometimes for people I barely know that do good things. I have no idea what was the best. It is really up to them.
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Serious hurt or worse for my children, I love them more then myself.
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Japanese influenced Koi tattoo swimming up stream on the outside of the upper left leg. One day.
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Uh huh! It insures that you have room for it!
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I seem to play with new partners with a higher then normal frequency it seems then others. It depends on the chemistry and the communication at first when I meet a new partner and where it goes. I tend to negotiate as things progress and am improving my understanding and skill at this.
Outside of playing, I do take measures to only play in public play spaces or to insure that if I play in private, there is a level of security on both sides. I don't want to be arrested with rape charges or worse. I also want them to be safe with whatever makes them comfortable with safe calls, friends that we both know tagging along and possibly other measures. It all depends on the context. -
I balance multiple D/s relationships and have them in the form of partners, play partners and lovers. There is frequent communication about expectations, wants, needs, what has happened and so on. There are wishful moments where I think about things being simpler but being poly, a rope top slut and somewhat switchy makes that impossible. The rest of my life is dynamic and complicated so simple M/s is impossible nor desired.
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Never done anything intended to outrage a group of people. It isn't my thing to upset people. Some would be outaged by things such as a three way with another man and a woman, fucking in a church, fucking in a cemetery, rafting a toilet out in white water with someone sitting on it, reaching in and pulling a baby animal out that wasn't delivering right, etc.
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It was a long time before I understood what I wanted was "kinky", I knew I was weird though, people told me that all the time. As for first kinky craving, to see women in real life looking hot and slutty. At the time, such an idea was so taboo in my teenage household or was it thinking about bondage? Or thinking about sex in the outdoors?
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Unless there is a deep personal connection with the person which has happened in a short time, no. If that connection was there with the added erotic sexual spice, sure after I talked to my current partners.
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Interesting hypothetical question. In the days I thought I needed someone close in my life, I would be insecure about it if that person was with someone life me. At the moment however, given the number of relationships that have come and gone, I would be okay with whatever the outcome would be and reflect on what I should learn from it.
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Graydancer is a positive modest soul with a good sense of humor who communicates and educates well in the kink community. The sex positive and inclusive nature of what I see him do and write is something I appreciate in many ways.
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B. Playful’s Bio
Bondage rope guy. Knows some tech. Wants the USA more open about sexuality.
