Probably the day my dad died. My dad died unexpectedly. I went to my mom's after not seeing her in years. I went to her room and started crying because I needed someone. In the other room my husband (now ex) was fighting my step dad. With words and fists. I took my husbands side, my step dad came out to our truck with a bat with my mom holding him back. I didn't know he had just got out of the hospital and my ex started the fight, even though my brothers told me that my ex started it. I should have believed them.