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yesss pleeeeeez i was just actually thinking about that. um. can we just get loads and loads of money somehow and go back? this time for like a month and also go to some other places?? ahh i misss ittt
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when you make yourself vulnerable enough that a single certain person can completely destroy you, yet you trust them not to. lasting love, i think, is agreeing/committing with someone to be partners through everything and to always protect each other before anyone else. romantic love, something which i hadn't ever been certain about, i find now to be sharing and withholding information from someone so that they hold an illusion of perfection of you. this kind of thing could most easily fall apart, because as soon as the illusion becomes clouded with reality it all sort of melts. however, if you have the other kinds of love in place, then logic will reign over romanticism and you can regain that illusion if you just let yourself forget certain things and forgive other things. i think love requires commitment and determination, openness and optimism, but i think that it is completely possible and entirely desirable and worthwhile. love is amazing if you can find someone who wants to make it work just as bad as you do. love has to be mutual. that's why the romantic illusion is so important at first, the idea of perfection prompts people to make commitments and open themselves up to possible heartbreak. once you get that far, then it just requires patience and your basic give&take to maintain it. love is so fun. that's the last thing that holds it together, i'd say. if it weren't so fun, maybe we wouldn't want to let ourselves be so vulnerable. but fuck, it's awesome! you get to play with someone, you can touch them wherever whenever, you can do embarrassing things and they won't mind, you get to meet their friends and family, you get to sleep in someone's bed every night, hold hands, learn from each other, try new things, show off the things you love, just so much fun. or you can just watch tv and not be alone. love is great. sorry if this is a rant. hahah (: <3<3
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when you make yourself vulnerable enough that a single certain person can completely destroy you, yet you trust them not to. lasting love, i think, is agreeing/committing with someone to be partners through everything and to always protect each other before anyone else. romantic love, something which i hadn't ever been certain about, i find now to be sharing and withholding information from someone so that they hold an illusion of perfection of you. this kind of thing could most easily fall apart, because as soon as the illusion becomes clouded with reality it all sort of melts. however, if you have the other kinds of love in place, then logic will reign over romanticism and you can regain that illusion if you just let yourself forget certain things and forgive other things. i think love requires commitment and determination, openness and optimism, but i think that it is completely possible and entirely desirable and worthwhile. love is amazing if you can find someone who wants to make it work just as bad as you do. love has to be mutual. that's why the romantic illusion is so important at first, the idea of perfection prompts people to make commitments and open themselves up to possible heartbreak. once you get that far, then it just requires patience and your basic give&take to maintain it. love is so fun. that's the last thing that holds it together, i'd say. if it weren't so fun, maybe we wouldn't want to let ourselves be so vulnerable. but fuck, it's awesome! you get to play with someone, you can touch them wherever whenever, you can do embarrassing things and they won't mind, you get to meet their friends and family, you get to sleep in someone's bed every night, hold hands, learn from each other, try new things, show off the things you love, just so much fun. or you can just watch tv and not be alone. love is great. sorry if this is a rant. hahah (: <3<3
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bahaha what a question. um, well for me it was very strange. it was premeditated, a sort of agreement between friends. so right away it began on a strange note. it was a bit awkward being suddenly catapulted into sexual intimacy with someone who i had only known casually and briefly (especially at 16 or 17), but in the end I was glad it was with a friend. There was no real pressure to please anyone, thankfully hahaha! After it was over, it was a bit awkward and our relationship was uncertain. But he was a very sweet person and his kindness and optimism made it all ok. Overall it was good. No pressure. A bit uncomfortable, but absolutely satisfactory. ka-ching. (:
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asked by allieway
you forgot to mention cartoons, bbqs, jello shots, dewey cox and hair-braiding, nail-painting, ya know..
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come to new york! i can fo definitely provide you with a couch to crash onz . you'll have fun i promise . hm ya know all this assuming that you aren't an inter-stranger running around formspring like a mad man answering questions and looking for answers to rape! or something . .. i dunno man . yeah, dude come to nyc.
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hmm i don't quite know what to say. if you are serious, then i'm very flattered. who are you?? how come you've never told me before? or have you?
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i most likely miss you tooo. so you ought to come back into my life and make me happy! doooooo it!
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I mish you tooooooo!! I'm so busy now with school but sooooon enough it will be all over for a few months and at which time you needa get your bum over here & pway w meeeeee (: (: ah ah
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Things are really great! I'm loving life! I mishes you toooo !!How's senior year???? I bet you're loving it haha! Do you know where you want to go to college? You're gonna lurrrrrve itt!!!!
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asked by michellefaria
MISCHY. i think you're super pretty and silly and i love and miss you A BUNCHA BA DUNCHA. yeah. like bunchiz. please visit me in may!!! plsplspslsss i love you (:
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awesome! although i haven't gotten to see him since Saturday 'cause i've been super busy ):
but it's definitely the most functional relationship i've ever had. like by far. it's just fantastic. at least at this moment it's kinda like he is everything i could ask for and probably more. the more i think about it the more lucky i feel. i am very content in the present and very excited for the future. eek (: -
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