Danielle
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Questions Answered
still thin you should stick around for this life. you're going to do something great.
Hah aw, you're sweet.
Do you ever find yourself thinking about your life as if you're writng a book?
So much, actually.
It amazes me how similar we are. I admit that sometimes I feel so alone that I start to believe that there is no one like me. But now I know that that is far from true.
Aww! I feel the same way quite often, but once in a while I am reminded that I am not alone. It's hard to accept, most of the time. I'm really glad that I'm able to make you feel that way though. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to. Out of curiosity, in which ways do you feel we are similar?
Yes, haha. I am saying that we all have our secrets. You never would have know it was me haha. I come off as a clown, but deep down I am not haha
Honestly, I would have never guessed this is you.
Giving you the chance could have possible been one of the greatest decisions I have made
Means the world to me.
Yet again you seize to amaze me. I would never have even thought about how being exposed can help you see who doesn't mind if you have a big scar on you, or what not. I guess you are right, maybe sometimes wounds must stay open in order to heal
I agree. I think that sometimes we have to purposefully expose ourselves to potentially harmful situations (I'm talking more in the emotional sense haha) in order to fulfill our wishes and conquer our inner demons. Thanks for understanding, ha.
Haha well I did judge you before knowing you, but then once I got to know you, realized that you are one of the most special, kind, genuine people I have ever met.
Well, I'm glad you were able to see through your first impression of me. It means a lot to me that you gave me that chance.
I already knew the answer to that question, you see. Based on the amount of effort and thinking you put into your responses makes me feel so warm inside, thinking that someone can be as passionate about helping strangers as you can be on here.
:) Well it makes me feel the same way knowing I can make you that happy! I always try to be as honest and thoughtful as I can, and the fact that I am able to help some people, even if they are complete strangers, is really comforting to me.
Exactly, that along with the fact that in reality, no one can be trusted. I have made the mistake so many times of letting people in that can not be trusted, the worst part is when people expose who you really are, or parts that should be kept a secret
I have made the same mistake, many times. It is awful when people tell your secrets, but what you said about parts of yourself being exposed- it's really not always a bad thing. Sometimes it's a way for you to find out who truly cares for you and who will love you and stand by you no matter what mistakes you've made in the past, no matter what scars you've tried your hardest to conceal. Sometimes the things you hate most about yourself are the things another cherishes and loves.
But the truth is, in a way you are better than everyone else because you see the things that most people neglect. I for one, am a judger. As soon as I see a flaw I immediately base my opinions. I hate myself for doing that. Everyone deserves a fair shot
I understand. It's just very hard for me to view myself as being better than someone else, because it is not something that I have ever truly thought about myself. I do that sometimes, too. But I mean, at least you catch yourself doing it, you know? At least you're not completely closed off to the idea of being open towards anyone. You must not be all that judgemental, being that you're talking to me ahaha. :p
A clue, haha. Well that would defeat the entire purpose! ;) Doesn't it make you feel much better knowing you helped someone anonymously?
Hahaha I suppppose. I'm just so curious now, THANKS! You could be anyone in the entire world. But, it's okay. I'm just glad I was able to help you.
I feel the same way, I feel as if I can trust no one and I do not open up to anyone about anything. Well don't worry, because when I feel alone, having you always helps me. Even if it is through anonymous. You are one of the reasons for my happiness
I'm the same way. I don't trust anyone. I don't even trust myself. And I never tell anyone about my problems because I do not want to burden anyone with my worries. I feel as though they are my own battles to fight, which is foolish of me because it would probably be better for me to talk things out instead of bottling up my emotions. I guess that is why I enjoy writing so much. You don't have to put much trust in a sheet of paper. Haha. I cannot even tell you how much great it makes me feel to be able to help you, despite the fact that you could be anyone in the world haha. I'm so glad I can make you happy.
Haha, thank you. And I know you are such a good person to talk to. The number one reason for that is because you do not judge people
Haha don't thank me! You see, I do judge people. We all do. It's human nature. It's just that I make a conscious effort to not base my opinion on ignorant assumptions because I don't want to miss out on getting to know someone wonderful. Besides, it's always the strangest things about people that I seem to love the most. No sense in acting like I'm better than anyone else.
Do you enjoy answering people questions/helping them with their issues over formspring?
I really, really do. More than I should, probably. It's just that, there are so many times when I don't have anyone to talk to about my problems. If I can be the person I am lacking in my life for someone else, it makes me feel a little better. I just want to reach out to people and help them as best I can. It makes me feel like I'm worth something. Even if it's only one person that I can help. I know what it's like to feel alone, and I want to keep as many people as I can from feeling that way. It's one of my favorite things in the world.
Yes, we are friends.
Hahah alright. You don't have to tell me who you are or anything, I was just curious.
Haha do not worry, none of your advice is ever shitty. Having you is like having my own personal therapist, it gives me comfort in a way
Hahah good, I'm glad! :) I'm always here if you need advice or someone to talk to.
even on the simplist thing imaginable such as the wind. I do not understand how you can possibly the the word Wind and create such a beautiful response and how well thought out it must be. I wish I could think like you do
Hahah aw you're so sweet. Thank you so much. You really do not want to think the way I do though, hah. I am crazy.
