Do you have an ideal guy you'd want to date? He wouldn't be taller than you, slightly overweight, often avoids shaving for weeks, a little older than you, finished university, and probably not as intelligent as you, would he? I might know someone like tha
Is he happy though? I don't need them to be chipper but I've already dated someone who thought I should be responsible for his happiness and would take his unhappiness out on me even though it wasn't my fault.
My ideal guy would be a lot older than me and a lot smarter than me and kinda mean and wear suits all the time and probably be married. And we'd have rough sex and then he'd lecture me on the importance of the Vienna School on the avant garde movement as a whole or maybe the complete history of the falling out between Bataille and Lacan and then not talk to me for days.
Though right now I'm mostly interested in sleeping with strange men who I don't ever have to talk to again.

