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      I don't know, um like a month or 2 ago i guess? before that though was like May. Really who is this though and why does it matter to you how often I have sex?

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      i actually don't look for much, there are certain triggers between that just means it's working, which has to happen from the very beginning.

      1. they have to get me. and i mean that sounds kind of simple, but i have a unique way of thinking and I'm pretty capricious. they have to be able to get that and we have to be able to just look at each other and understand everything.

      2. they have to be good enough for me to introduce to my mom. as much as my mom says she doesn't care who I date as long as they make me happy, i won't be happy unless he is good enough for my mom because I get my standards from my mother. This means everything has to be up to par, educated, driven, successful, raised well, all with a certain presence.

      In a way I'm really picky, but I really am not looking for a long list. It has to be just the right fit.

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      No.

      Firstly, I don't even know who you are.
      Secondly, I'm a very picky person when it comes to dating.
      Thirdly, I have strict rules when it comes to dating that I stick to and one of the rules is, if you're going to ask me out on a first date, it has to be in person to my face and you have to already have it planned out.

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      i just ate a whole pint of ice cream, downloaded 12 sad romance movies, just got off the phone with an ex, and i havent gotten out of bed yet. what do you think? lol im feeling fabulous and lazy.

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      Well considering that I've never had sex with myself, I don't really know how I would be able to make a judgment or rating on myself. I can say I've only gotten compliments and have never gotten a complaint.

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      I've only played the first one so IDK. lol. how about the world from Wall-E?

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      alfietomi responded to iemjhon 16 Jan 11

      I'm not really a person who is like obsessed with cars because honestly, it's just a method to get from point a to point b and so I'd rather care about it being comfortable and luxurious.

      I have a 2004 mercedes benz ML 500 right now and i love it. but I was bored and started looking into new cars and I kind of want the Lexus RX 450h AWD or the Porsche Cayenne S Hybrid. Both Hybrid SUVs.

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      legal. I'm not about to go to jail nor would I have anything in common with someone under the age of 20 nor would we be similar places in our lives. I've dated mostly guys older than me, but I do know a few 20 year olds I would date. The thing is I wouldn't date anyone where we are limited to where we can go. If I have to sneak you into a 21+ club, it won't work out. But I've dated people who are 3 years younger than me to 14 years older than me. It all really depends more factors than just age, although age is something i do consider.

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      Thanks for the compliment. I really don't know how to answer this question in a simple straightforward answer but I guess if it's because of a number of reasons.

      1. The right guy hasn't come by to ask me out yet (simplest and main reason).
      2. I have strict rules when it comes to dating which I stick by to which can prevent me from dating.
      3. I know that people who don't know me well, they find me intimidating.
      4. If they don't find me intimidating, they think I'm a bitch.
      5. I've been too focused lately on other things that dating hasn't been a priority.
      6. I've been hanging out with my straight friends A LOT lately and haven't really been going to gay clubs and it's kind of hard to meet someone at a straight club or private house parties.
      7. I had a small crush on a few guys, but one of them has a bf and the 2nd one I just know it won't work out cause I know I'm not his type (and don't lecture me about this, I know it's not going to work out, we're better off as friends).
      8. The only guys i feel like I have been attracting are creepers and trolls.

      Yea. idk. lol.

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      Wow, ok well there's many parts to answer this question. It's a lie to say I don't enjoy sex. I do enjoy sex. Why wouldn't? Honestly though, most of the times I had sex, i did it just did it because whomever I'm seeing at the time wanted to. I'm never pressured into having sex, cuz when I say no, and u push for it, I'll kick you in the nuts. But if he wants to and I'm in a whatever mood, then sure. But I make it no secret how into it I am at the moment by how much effort I put into it. So i guess it's kind of both? IDK if that made any sense.

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      Lilith from Tales from the Crypt - Bordello of Blood. hehe, sexy vampire prostitute. lol

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