Right where you put Him.

God is always near to those who call on him. If you push Him aside and do your own thing, do you really expect Him to help? God looks for those who sincerely call on Him. He is willing to help you and be there for you but if you don't let him, what do you expect?

I really don't want this to sound mean but if you just call on God when something "bad" happens what kind of relationship is that? If you really want Him to help, look for Him in every situation and you'll find Him. :)