Yesterday.

i'm not sure how i am supposed to even begin to answer this since you don't say what you actually want to study........

but just because, how about this:

1) hogwarts school of witchcraft and wizardry
2) malory towers
3) st trinian's
4) eton
5) sandhurst

friendship is when obviously firstly you like and enjoy the company of someone and this feeling is mutual. but that's just like, basic friendship, for me, to me, for our friendship to maintain, (not in terms of what i look for in a friendship) there must be emotional value, honesty and trust,

the kind of trust where, we don't have to talk all the time and i know we will still be close, though that shouldn't be taken as the liberty to not stay in touch/make efforts to keep up with each others' lives and expect me to still care, also, i feel i can read people/my friends pretty well & i can always tell when something is off, if there are things someone is not telling me. but i don't demand full honesty in the sense that, if it's not given, (and over time things do not change) i note it & move away

honesty, whereby we can both be honest about how we feel, if one of us changes then it's something that can be discussed, neutrally, with the understanding that it is done out of care, for eg. if someone seems to be slipping out of the person he usually is, becoming someone i no longer respect, then i can bring it up bc i love him. honesty & trust are intricately linked, i can trust that you will be honest with me one day, that extreme privacy/closing yourself is a personal trait, but lack of honesty also indicates trust issues

also, i'm very particular about my friends bc i give a lot of myself in terms of time/heart/what i would sacrifice for a person, so if it seems as though a person does not prioritize me as much as i do her/him, i move away, that also includes 'friend-sluts' people who seem to readily allow people into their circle of close friends, seems slutty, hate that, i don't allow people in easily & i don't want to be treated that way

finally feel like basic beliefs are the most important, for me that means Christianity. not going to not be friends with someone simply bc we have different religions, but i find my closest friends all share these same foundational values: eve, sarah, eli, claire kara etc. we look at the world in the same way. if things in our lives go wrong, we feel there is objective basis in how we ground our words of advice to each other, bc we believe in a form of truth as opposed to (I guess) rampant relativism. when i was in London @anothercaroline & i had really solid conversation, felt that beyond common interests, we both share the same beliefs & a desire of commitment to God

thanks for this question, have been re-considering friendships over the last few days, felt good to write it all out

Oh okay.

I not cool. You teach me how to be cool also.

oslo
berlin
copenhagen
istanbul
norway
scotland
czechoslovakia
south africa
new york
northland, new zealand
portugal
normandy
dueville
madrid
crete and the rest of the Greek islands
hawaii
chicago
buenos aires

Church's brogues.

i feel like your opinion is embedded in your question and it contains an obvious element of bias towards the quote you 'more respectable' courses

i respect anyone who chooses to follow their dreams and not bending to social will. more so for these courses which may not be deemed a 'safe' choice, re job opportunities and a stable income. and while perhaps many people choose law and medicine because of the social respect surrounding the course/future career there are also those who have a genuine passion for what they are studying

i respect passion and individualism

I don't wear bra one.

well it really depends doesn't it? for instance if he/she already has someone, or if he/she has made it clear before that you two could never work. i'd like to think that people can be rational enough to talk about these things like adults—but i fear this isn't quite possible in real life. the last thing you should do though is try to pull some stunt. that's a really bad idea. i can't and won't tell you how to act on your conscience but i will say that at some point you have to make a decision on which you desire more, friendship or a possible love. only you would know if the latter is even a possibility.

What?! Hahaha okay.

Print money.

Nopeeeee. My friend Dilys is 17 and she's dresses nothing like her age. Woohoooo

We got her a kartell ghost chair.

i always care for coffee. usually alone, but if you give me a compelling reason, why not.

Thanks!

16?? (Haha sorry, I'm just doing this because I hardly ever get to say that.) But anyway, I have my ways.. and I didn't club at 16.

what do you want me to do about it

HI DILYS!!! :D

Yes.