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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 14 May via iOS

      I am not sure whether I like looking in mirrors, but I sure do it a lot.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 2 May via iOS

      Yes: but not by choice. My kids are addicted.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 24 Apr via iOS

      I'm actually pretty sure I avoid them. Solids look far better to me.

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      What do I have? Relatively short? What do I prefer on women? Long. What do I prefer on myself? Either longish or shaven, but more shaven since my hair started thinning and receding.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 10 Apr via iOS

      These days mostly stuff from my kids' favorite TV shows.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 4 Apr via iOS

      Rats. But I suspect that's just my opinion.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 3 Apr via iOS

      Yes, but not without raising my eyebrows too.

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      YdacRetsim responded to Formspring 20 Mar via iOS

      I've done both. I hold grudges more for hurting my friends than I do for people who've bothered me personally.

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      Depends on the song and it's purpose. If I want to break silence but my focus is elsewhere, I want it soft. If I'm trying to drown out other noises, I want it fairly loud. If I'm listening to Metal, I want to damage my eardrums.

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      Yup. Technically I do it every day, on account of my working nights.

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      Hm... First of all, let me compliment you on your clever turn of phrase. Nicely done.
      Secondly, I should warn you that I'm hardly a relationship guru.

      That said, either possibility is very real. However, I think your response should be less about their motivations and more about your own. Are YOU willing to bury the hatchet? If so, accept the request, give her the benefit of the doubt, and try your best to move forward. If not, tell her as much in as polite a way as you can, and decline the request. But don't use that "block user" button facebook gives you when you deny requests... there's always hope for healing in the future.

      You may think "Hey Liam, that's stupid: if I accept it and she uses the access to hurt me, I'm worse off than before." Maybe. But we owe each other the best versions of ourselves that we can be. If you can accept the request and show her genuine trust, you are doing the right thing. She may hurt you, intentionally or by carelessness, but the world will be a better place for the action you took.

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