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Without knowing what these remarks entail, I wouldn't worry as long as his actions continue to match his words. If he says he isn't scared but acts scared, that's different. Lastly, fear isn't necessarily a bad thing. As long as it doesn't hinder the relationship's progress. It might mean he respects the significance of the relationship.
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If it bothers you, say something. Communication = key.
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Yes, but I would not be above blocking them if things went South. No pun intended.
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First, glad you've enjoyed the site.
I am actually considering doing more videos in the future - this has been recommended to me on more than one occasion. Really, the only reason I haven’t already is because they take so long to edit but that's mainly due to me being OCD and not the video making process itself. Hopefully, I'll find a healthy balance and can put out more in the near future.
For the record, no matter what happens, I'll always be #TeamPlusSizeModels. -
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Last I checked, Black and/or African American.
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Depends. If all he wanted was sex, then he'll only miss that. If she cuts him off and he wants more he will pursue accordingly. However, usually if he wanted more he would have pursued that in the first place. If she cuts him off, and he has no other options, it's very possible he's pursuing only to re-establish the status quo. Therefore, if you're going to cut him off, I would be sure to clearly define what you expect him to change if you take him back (assuming you take him back at all), otherwise you'll only end up right back in the same cycle of pseudo-sex-based-relationship.
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I'm not big on astrological signs and I don't think they're a big indicator on the success or failure of a relationship. Of course, since I don't pay attention, it is very possible they DO predict the success of a relationship and I just don't know any better.
I am a Scorpio and I do have a tattoo reflecting that. I also dated a Gemini once and she almost killed me on more than one occasion, so if possible, I attempt to avoid those women. -
Men take what is given to them. I often compare men to water, their paths can be changed (dams, etc) but usually they're simply going to follow the path of least resistance. Call it 'natural law' if you will. Thus, if a man knows he has a woman that allows him to continue to return, especially if said woman is allowing him to be intimate whenever he does return, then chances are he will continue to do so until SHE cuts HIM off. If he wanted more than the physical from you, he would pursue more.
I believe it's one of three scenarios: 1) It's easy so he keeps returning 2) He probably already has or is looking for someone else on the side. Otherwise, why would he keep disappearing? What (or who) is he doing during that downtime? 3) (least likely) He really likes you but he's not looking for anything serious. Any time he feels himself getting too close to you emotionally he pulls away to create the distance he needs to ensure it only stays physical and nothing more.
While it appears you are waiting for him to change, it would be easier and yield quicker results for you to change first and see how he reacts, if he reacts at all.
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Since I write and can't sing, I'd give up the ability to hear if I had to choose.
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Humbled.
Well, I’ve always been open and honest with myself. I’m introspective by nature. Really, the only true limits I’ve ever had were lack of life experience, which obviously tends to address itself or they were self-imposed, meaning I was too stubborn to accept I might be wrong.
I guess it’s really a matter of when did I become open and honest on the blog. I don’t have an exact date but while the blog was in its “infancy” someone suggested I would be a lot more successful if I made it more personal. I hesitated at first but eventually I decided to heed this advice and for the most part it has been well received.
As far as how I got to that point? After a number of setbacks in relationships and in life, I realized it would be of greater benefit to myself (and others) if I first assessed what role I played in these failures, then if applicable, determine the role others played and adjust accordingly. I’m also one of those people that believes everything happens for a reason, even if I don’t understand the reason. -
I definitely have a thing for the Latinas. Despite the fact that Puerto Ricans are nothing but sexy accent having evil heart breakers, I'll still date one (or two). However, I don’t discriminate by race. I'll date whomever is attracted to me if the feeling is mutual. Contrary to popular belief, I mostly date black women.
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Seriously committed? Four come to mind: One in high school - 2 years. One in college - 5 years (I'll admit I cheated a few times). Two post college, roughly 2 years each.
I date a lot. It's rare I commit but when I do, they tend to last a while. I'm thinking the next woman I "commit" to will be the potential wife. I'm getting too old for this dating sh*t. lol -
I'm a simple man. I'd like an attractive woman, 7 or up. Intelligent. Preferably with no kids. Yes, I've dated lots of women like this; however, as I've said before, there is an "it factor" that only certain women have. I can’t describe it. I really don’t even know what it is, but I know it when I'm with them. Those are the women I end up in committed relationships with versus just dating.
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Been asked a variation of this question a few times and I don't plan on answering outright. I'm not that hard to find but I'm hard enough to find. I prefer to leave things that way.
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IDK. Killing myself?
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Thanks for the laugh because I was actually in a fairly shitty mood today (Monday). I assume this is in reference to oral sex, which I'm not opposed to performing. I actually like doing it. However, I don't go downtown in every city I meet. I usually withhold this treatment for the girlfriend.
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wisdomismisery’s Bio
I'm a freelance writer / blogger and a Scorpio. I frequently rant but mostly I rave. I also talk to strangers.
