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You can buy it at all these places and it is currently priced quite low: http://bit.ly/fjxcK9 and it contains over 1000 previously unseen secrets, plus many written in more detail than were tweeted and put on Tumblr.
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XD I love it when they do that! Oh, and groan! :¬) I see it isn't just gays who do this.
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I still have about 50 in my inbox to upload. We have been uploading them on our Tumblr too. I'll be putting up all the ones in my inbox throught the week, so, if it's there, it will be displayed. If it isn't, it might have been lost in Formspring's system. This has happened with messages I've sent. If you don't see your secret by the end of the week, send it again.
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Unless you feel it is something he needs to know, you don’t have to explain it to him. I have had confessions from girls who told boys they were their first sex experience when they weren’t. Not all girls bleed heavily when their virginity is taken. Also, the hymen can be broken during exercise or even riding a bike. A broken hymen isn’t always an indicator of a previous sexual experience. It is entirely up to you though. Some feel they need everything out in the open and others hate their future partners knowing because they feel they are looked at or treated differently once the knowledge is shared. If he has never had sex before, how is he going to know the difference? You can even fake blood on the sheets if you think it is going to change things.
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Thanks! We're working hard on volume 2. ;¬)
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Okay, to start with, what you are describing with your foreskin sounds like Phimosis, which is a male condition where the foreskin cannot be fully retracted from the head of the penis. Most men can actually live with it, but, for some, they find it uncomfortable and sometimes painful. There are, both, surgical and non-surgical ways of dealing with this.
Surgical methods consist of the removal of the foreskin (circumcision) or a minor operation to let out the foreskin (either a dorsal slit or preputioplasty). With a dorsal slit, they just make a single incision along the upper length of the foreskin from the tip to the corona, the edge of the head, which exposes it without removing any tissue. Preputioplasty is sort of a cross between circumcision and a dorsal slit, but doesn't fully remove the foreskin. This is the method that most people go in for, because it is relatively painless and there is a very short healing time.
Non-surgical methods are topical steroid cream, such as betamethasone, which can take up to 2 months to narrow the foreskin. This is quite popular and some see it as replacing circumcision in the future. Also stretching of the foreskin using specialist tools.
You should talk to your GP and never be ashamed to do this, as he will refer you to a specialist who will be doing this sort of thing all day long and will know ho to put you at ease. You can request a male doctor should you not want a female doctor to look at you.
RE: The condom question. You can buy condoms that are longer than your average condom and, if the condom is loose and "bunches", you may want to get ones with a smaller girth. Having a foreskin that doesn't retract should not cause any problems with condoms. When they instruct you to "retract your foreskin before rolling on a condom", this is mostly just to allow the foreskin to slide back and forth over the head of your penis more easily during intercourse, as you would be able to if you could pull your foreskin back. What you should do is, try to keep about a half-inch of the end of the condom with the air squeezed out, between your finger and thumb before you roll the rest down the shaft of your penis. But, I guess the best thing you can do is buy a packet of condoms and experiment with putting them on and masturbating to see what way feels best for you personally. Some people recommend putting a TINY amount of lube around the end of your penis if possible before you get erect and before you put the condom on. -
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Thanks! It isn't illegal to think things. Just to act on them. No sex with anybody, regardless of whether they are women, men, girls or boys is worth going to prison for. Keep that in mind. I had a confession from a man who was convicted for having sex with a minor and he said the only thing worse than going to prison for having sex with a child is getting released from prison as a registered sex offender. In my opinion, and it is an opinion that is shared by most experts in the field of sexology, you can not change your sexuality. The day you can stop a straight man liking breasts and vagina is the day you can stop a pedophile liking children. My advice to you is to just stick to masturbating over your thoughts rather than acting on them. That way nobody is any the wiser and nobody, including yourself, gets hurt.
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