My thoughts? It's too early to "be friends." Being friends with an ex is dangerous. Especially if you're the one who's stuck with the feelings. It's fine to be civil and speak when you see each other out/text each other on your birthdays/whatever. But any more than that right now? No, ma'am. You're not ready, and if he really does want you two to be friends, like REALLY be friends, then he'll respect that it's going to take some time for you to make that transition. Just listen to your instincts. You'll know when you can actually have an FB chat with him without re-planning your wedding together and reminiscing on what once was. Then and only then can you be friends without worrying about getting reattached. This has actually inspired me to do a blog post, so stay tuned to our blog for the next couple of days! I just thought you might need to hear these words a little sooner.

Stay strong, and be smart, and I promise you'll be better off.

#mc