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      I wasn't aware that he had been. I've been away. But I do think it might be as a result of jealousy. His blog is very light-hearted and incredibly popular - might make some of the queens very jealous!

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      Is that a good or bad thing? I know even those that won't admit it enjoy looking at the pictures and I think sometimes they help illustrate what I'm writing about - so kick back and just enjoy!

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      There's nothing to be envious of. Everybody has their own restrictions and situations that make what is already a very difficult situation even more difficult. If you'd like to discuss it more, feel free to send me a mail at: idontunderstanditeither@hotmail.com

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      I also noticed yesterday that the blog had disappeared. I will send him an email to try and find out what happened or get a new link for him.

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      No, I don't. I think people assume because I'm gay and married my entire life is centered around having gay sex ALL the time. It just isn't like that. I totally understand some guys that are busy with the "living a lie" routine - but I don't see it like that at all. It's just part of me and I go with the flow, that doesn't mean every waking minute is spent hunting out gay sex and wearing feather boas every time her head is turned. I'm a very normal guy who happens to be attracted to men. Everybody has secrets that they don't feel a need to share with those closest to them. Straight guys too - whether it's having an affair, whether it's a need to be whipped by another woman (other than their wife) while tied-up inside a box while wearing a nappy. I also believe that everyone is entitled to their own little secret - provided of course that it doesn't interfere with their "regular" life.

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      I think about it a lot. I have always sought a relationship with another married guy. A relationship based on love between two people in a similar situation who understand what's going on. But it's very difficult to find. I've always found that when I've had a relationship with another married guy I miss the fucking around yet when I'm fucking around I always want a relationship. But I'm not looking to change my status, merely add what is missing. I hope that makes sense.

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      I disagree. I'm certainly not the only gay married guy in the world. Personally, I think if you're sensible and behave accordingly there's no reason in the world why I should ever be caught or found it.

      If by some inexplicable reason that does happen, no, I'm not prepared for it and I will deal with it when it happens.

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      This situation has arisen. But I am always very mindful of the fact that I'm married, and being married is always my first priority and would never let myself get into a situation that could jeopardise the life I have chosen to lead. I knew what I was before I decided to get married and that must always be my first priority.

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      I am incredibly disciplined with regard to my computer use at home and do not blog from home or visit any sites that could "get me into trouble". I am a very strong believe of "if in doubt, do without" and that relates to lots of things, not just my use of the computer.

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      I did a search on Google Images (the majority of the pictures I post are from there). I can't remember what search words I used though. Possible "men kissing" or "secret gay love' - something along those lines. I'm pleased you like it!

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      She doesn't have a clue about it. It's my deep, dark secret and I don't feel any need to discuss it with her. I don't think she knows that I find men physically attractive, but at the same time I have no problem telling her that a guy is good looking or to see a guy and tell her I wish I had a body like his.

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      I have a couple of friends I talk to about things. One is gay the other is divorced but fools about with guys. I met them both as "one-off" meetings but ended up becoming good friends with them and chat with them about everything and they chat with me about everything too.

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