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C: Sorry, who is this? I've lost track of messages.. <3
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C: That's so awesome! I'm so happy for you (: <3
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C: I'm not sure hun :/ You could try emailing her if you want <3
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C: It can feel strange to start with if you're not used to it but you soon get the hang of it (: Start with just the basic kiss and see where it goes from there. If the other person has more experience they may guide you through it. Otherwise, it's fun experimenting with the person (: <3
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C: You can't tell for sure, but some warning signs are: He doesn't pay full attention to you, he flirts with other girls. Sometimes he may be overly affectionate towards you in public when he's around other girls to make them feel jealous, he wont let you read his texts etc. <3
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C: Things that you are comfortable with but turn you and your partner on. Say how you're feeling (: "I want you so bad", "you make me so horny".. <3
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C: Kiss her neck, stroke her legs, talk dirty to her, get eye contact with her <3
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C: Talk dirty to him, kiss/nibble his neck, stroke his back/legs, pose seductively, maybe bend down in front of him <3
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C: Well, your first time will probably be different to afterwards. You'll have to take it very slowly, and you may not get much pleasure from it. If you do feel like you're enjoying it, then you can do things with your hands. Run your hands all over his back, bum and legs. Do what comes naturally (: Kiss his neck and get him to lean in for a kiss. <3
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C: I don't see why they should care (: <3
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C: Some boys prefer to have sex with people who aren't virgins because they have more experience and may be "better" in bed. Other guys prefer virgins because they're tighter.. Others don't have a preference <3
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C: I was honestly so, so scared of having sex or doing anything like that before I met my boyfriend. I didn't understand why people were having sex or wanted to do that kind of thing. Now I know it's because I wasn't ready for it. If you're not ready, then there is nothing wrong with that. If you just hook up with someone who you don't have feelings for, you will most likely not enjoy it and probably regret it.. I think it's best to be in a relationship first with someone who you have strong feelings for, or just someone you feel really comfortable around and really like. You'll know when you're ready. You'll get turned on and want to do things with them. There is no rush though, remember that <3
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C: I haven't tried it before but from what I've heard, the first time can be painful. It should be done slowly and gently with lots of lube <3
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C: That's not embarrassing at all! You're still young. Even though people lose their virginity at younger ages now, doesn't mean that they're cooler. I lost my virginity a few months before my 17th birthday and to tell you the truth, I wish I waited even longer! A lot of people regret losing their virginity young, and I definitely recommend being in a good, stable relationship beforehand. If you tell a guy and they take the piss, then ignore them, and don't have sex with them. If they're really that immature, they shouldn't be having sex in the first place <3
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C: Your part 2 wasn't anon so I'm answering on here. To me, it sounds like she believes it is an open relationship where you can "get with" other people. But, if you're not happy with this then you should say! It sounds like she is finding it very hard to be in a long distance relationship, because it doesn't feel like "enough". Although she may say it's only once a month, there's no way of telling that she does it more than that.. You should really talk to her about it and tell her that you're not happy, before it goes too far <3
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C: I'm afraid that I've never experienced it, so I can't tell you. I recommend looking it up on the internet. You will probably find people who have shared their knowledge (: <3
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C: You've been happy for a long time, and I'm so glad that you were (: Now you know the sort of things that make you sad, you should really try to avoid them. Getting into the routine of being unhappy can make it even hard to get out of it. Meet up with friends and have some fun. Take up a new hobby, or do some exercise (: Exercise is such a great way to make people feel good. I really recommend that <3
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