Well, isn't that sweet. I have seen them a couple of times and they are a beautiful sight.

Its kind of funny to see them. During our first year (1998-99) the camera we had could only take 7 photos at a time so our photo sets were small and fuzzy. I also tanned back then and had a bad bang trim. There was an enthusiasm that is pretty unique to all of us who were the pioneers of online Amateur porn.

Most definitely. Personally, I like to have all the cards on the table so I know what i am getting into. What does casual sex mean to them? To me? I have a theory that with many people they say they want casual sex but if you have a few encounters then they grow attached. Not with everyone but it does happen. On both sides.

Why thank you!

I find the most thoughtful gifts are from people who know what I need rather than what I want. So when I was poor university student my family got me gift certificates for grocery stores. One year I got a watch from a lover. That was super thoughtful as I had lost mine. This year I would be happy with donations to Head and Hands as I am on their board of directors and their work means a lot to me.

I am not sure what you mean. I am a work in progress as we all are. :-)

I have been seeing the same massage therapist for 10 years. I love Shiatsu which is helps with my asthma and over all body functions. When I am training seriously then I like a sport massage because it helps with recovery. In terms of a sensual massage with a lover, I like the use of a natural oil and for us to take our time. I took a weekend workshop and it was helpful in improving my skills so it was truly relaxing. If you cannot take a course I suggest getting a book on the topic.

I am not sure what you mean by this? New as compared to old? I am pretty much the same as I always have been and sharing on the web what I feel comfortable sharing.

I know there is a lot of controversy about being asexual, how to define it, and how it is expressed. To be honest I am not sure what to think of it. If it is a biological thing then we would find it across all cultures and through out the ages. I think there probably has not been enough research to know. Regardless, when it comes to sexuality we have to respect peoples attractions (as long as their behaviour about them is safe, sane and consensual) or lack there of. And we have to listen to our heart's, body's and mind's and decide what feels right for us and respect that even when it doesn't fit hetero normative hyper sexualized standards we see in our current culture.

I do not think I have ever have had a man cook from start to finish except for one boyfriend and then it was us cooking together and he once made me a birthday cake.

I would love for someone to cook for me be it a lover or a friend. It is a wonderful gesture. A favourite meal would vary depending on the season or the time of day. I like pancakes in the morning. Soups and salads are great during the day. In the winter I like something warm and spicy like a stew.

I have only been a three vacations in the past 15 years. I like to visit friends, unplug and relax.

Yes, I do. Not as much as in the past because I am in school full time.

I am not a fan of athletic wear unless it is worn while playing sports or attending a sporting event.

I am trying to stop wearing conventional perfume as they do not list the ingredients and they can be quite the toxic chemical bath. See No More Dirty Looks for info on the potential allergies and toxicity issues with perfumes.

http://nomoredirtylooks.com/tag/perfume/

Maria Bello, Selma Blair, Kat Dennings, Marisa Tomei, Steve Carell, George Clooney, Jake Gyllenhaal, and Tom Welling. As for what gets me in the mood, its more music than movies though I find certain scenes sexy. Like the exchange between Jennifer Lopez and George Clooney in Out of Sight.

Thanks SImon! I am planning a revamp of the free side of things so more goodies to be expected in September!

Hmmm. I have always enjoyed flowers, books and small pieces of jewelry given without a special occasion to be very nice. Especially if they are favorites. Cooking a special meal and setting the stage with candles and mood music can be sexy.

I know I am wasting my Friday night but this is how you are wasting yours? At least I am washing my hair and giving myself a facial while I putter around online. No, not the sex kind. The green seaweed kind. Yep - you caught me in a feisty mood. :-)

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If you want to be a true amateur sex performer and show your stuff and not make any money off of it, now is the time! Just grab your iphone, create a blog and upload some pics of you all naked.

Seriously, there is so much free porn out there that the old business models no longer apply. Making money from porn is not a given if it ever was.

Having something unique to offer can help, but you also have to have good shooting skills - not to mention video editing as well as online marketing. You cannot start with nothing like you did in the late 1990s. Its an investment of time and money (you will need to either code a site yourself or purchase a Content Management System as well s set up your billing). And like it was back then it is still a risk. Everyone will see your content and it can affect most any 'straight' job you have as well as your family relationship and friendships.

Sorry to be a downer but I rather be honest.