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Welp the person I like is my girlfriend. So if I found out she was dating someone else I would flip shits lol.
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I'm honestly not sure. Maybe figure out the source of your anxiety and try to work on it? If you don't know why, you can try to teach yourself to become more outgoing and not care so much about what people think. I know hearing that doesn't help but once you realize people's opinions really don't matter and you're the one who will have the most effect on your life ever, it starts being easier. If you have anxiety around people you don't know because you're trans, for example, maybe you can learn what makes you pass better or you can train yourself not to feel so self-conscious whenever someone uses the wrong pronouns. You can even imagine that whenever people call you ma'am, they're actually saying man. You could also try to, whenever you feel your anxiety kicking in, take deep breaths, try to relax and think to yourself something like, "Why are you feeling anxious? What can you do to stop this?" If there's no reason, try not to stress. If there is a reason, and you can fix it, fix it so you won't be so stressed. If there's a reason but you can't fix it, move on. Worrying about things you have absolutely no control over does nothing but hurt you and probably makes the problem worse.
I don't know much about treating anxiety but that's what I'd say you can do. Your absolute last resort, in my opinion, should be seeking medication. There are always treatments you can try that don't have nasty, long lasting side effects. -
Awesome! I'm looking very forward to it :)
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Star Trek. All the way non stop forever and ever. The end.
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Oh golly. Well I feel bad because I honestly completely forgot to even start this xD Okay, so I don't really know how to make tabs. But, if you want I can make a video tutorial. Or, if you can find a tab template maker thingy, I can figure out how to.
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I'm not with my girlfriend at my house (which is the only place we have a good camera) that often so I can't make that many videos. And our 5 month is tomorrow.
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Well, most importantly, you need to relax. Most likely, people aren't going to be inspecting you up and down for how masculine you look except for yourself. If you freak out too much, it's just going to make you more and more nervous about the situation. Especially with binding, your point of view makes your chest looks bigger than it actually looks. From straight on, it usually looks very much so less noticeable. That's all I can really say I guess. Confidence is the key to a lot of things, especially passing. And if you're worried about your voice, just don't sweat about it that much. All I did was talk a little less around intimidating people lol. You could also try vocal exercises that make your voice seem deeper and even work with the way you speak (like the inflections and tone, etc). I've also heard men take up a lot more space and I do find this to be true. So I guess don't cross your legs and arms like most women do. Sprawl out xD
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I already put up a five month video
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Maybe. Besides being a song I don't like though, it's out of my range. So. Probably not.
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It's my friend's bracelet. The ball of my lip ring fell out and I can't afford a new one so I occasionally use a ring. However, kissing isn't very fun with the ring in so I don't wear it sometimes. I cannot get fake metal in my tongue because I'm allergic to all metal except surgical steel, sterling silver, and other real metals. I don't like the song We Are Young. I can't really stand it. I saw Fun. in concert, and they weren't very good. But that song annoys me.
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I will put up a video update soon. Don't worry.
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My birthday was April 25th and it depends on the situation and the fan.
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I've answered this question before. It could mean absolutely anything. A lot of people read WAYYY to far into stuff and that's exactly what you're doing right now. If he's smiling, maybe he's being polite. Maybe he's trying to hard the fact that he's farting. Maybe he thinks your cute. Maybe his face just does that sometimes. I know for a fact, one side of my face is stronger than the other so I always have a crooked smile. That doesn't mean anything about who I'm talking to. I smile a lot when I flirt but i also smile a lot when I'm in an uncomfortable situation. Don't go with just subtle "hint"s like that, actually dive in and do something about it. If you want something to happen, initiate it instead of standing at the sidelines and wondering if a stupid little smile means he secretly is infatuated with you. Talk to him. And if he doesn't reciprocate, then that's at least better than never having known if you could have had a shot with him to begin with.
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No worries, man. Hakuna matata :D
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I have faith in women's hygiene but.. I dunno. I know that sweat accumulates throughout the day and gets caught in that stuff. And It also gets in the way for me a lot. It's just my personal preference though. If someone doesn't want to shave, that's cool with me, I'd just probably prefer not to go down on them very much.
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