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      oh no! Have you aplogised to her for 'losing it'? The air definitely needs to be cleared otherwise next time you make an attempt at intimacy she will reject you and she's unlikely to try again, so the wedge between you will get bigger. She was trying to bring the intimacy back, and now she will be feeling hurt, rejected and undesired. Try to put yourself in her shoes and think how you would feel. I'm guessing that you don't have children at home anymore, so there is no excuse for not making quality time for each other. Are you leading seperate lives? Are you still physicaly attracted to your wife? If you can tell me a bit more I can better advise you...

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      Most people have a sexual past...do you think this way with women in general (ie picture other 'dudes' inside her) or is her sexual past only an issue because of her job as an escort? I personally don't see why you should view it differently to a girl who has multiple partners that hasn't escorted. It's in her past and she's been very open with you. If you care for her and want to make it work you need to put her past job where it should be - in the past, and move forwards. It's not very nice for her if you are thinking about her with other men when you are having sex with her, because I can guarentee she won't be thinking about her past clients when she's having sex with you - she will be thinking about you.

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      I am generally a very happy person, and when I was escorting yes I was happy with my profession, and I am equally happy now on my exciting journey since I finished escorting. Everyone has different values/desires you can't define one formular that will make everyone happy because everyone is different.

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      naughty for sure. my mum still makes us stockings. bless :) they're not naughty though we get satsumas, nuts, socks and little toys lol

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      if you still want to be friends tell her you are no longer going to be her alibi, will not cover for her and you don't want to hear anything about her cheating or problems with her husband - however from what you have said she sounds quite selfish, so maybe ending subtly would be best. you don't want her to drag you down with her problems because from what you have said it seems like a one way friendship

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      sounds like she wants you to tell him! why on earth would she tell you if she knows you're friends with him? Hmmm, difficult one. these things can end up back firing and you can be painted as the bad guy. I'd tread carefully. are you closer to him or her?

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      I didn't get a buzz from the sex but the lifestyle gave me a buzz, and yes sometimes I miss that. I went without sex for a year and half when i finished escorting. I enjoy sex very much, but I wanted to prove to myself that i could go without. I don't get enjoyement from one night stands there has to be a deeper connection there.

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      I'm very happy and content as I am. many friends that I had in the biz were married or had partners that were supportive of their job. I no longer escort and have a number of exciting projects on the go. Everyone has a past and skeletons in the closet, it's just mine are in the open :)

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      I gotta a few, here's some of my faves....
      'we are a creation of our own mind' - Buddah
      'you snooze you lose' - random
      'he who dares Rodney, he who dares' Only Fools and Horses :D

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      be interested and interesting. Genuine interest will keep a woman attentive, and then she's doing most of the talking :) It's one of the biggest mistakes men make, they are simply not interested enough in a woman; getting to know her and finding out what she's about. we can all be shy and introverted sometimes, it's nothing to concern yourself with - especially because you say you are only that way some of the time.

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