So'k not my favorite, but it's funny sometimes.

When I find out someone is lying, especially to get me to like them, it's a no go. I really adore blunt, authentic, interesting, opinionated, people with integrity and ethics, so nothing is as repellent for me as being around someone disingenuous or fake. Not just because of trust but also because it makes me have no respect for them as a person, it shows a lack of character/backbone.

Online is a great way if you are socially inept and have a hard time just going up to a stranger. Although I prefer social networks sites (particularly ones about interests or hobbies) to actual dating sites, it feels less forced and like there is less expectation. Plus that way you can build a rapport with a girl before meeting her, and also by the time you actually get a chance to meet her you know she's not a moron and you have things in common from exchanging messages. Although I can't stress enough that you be honest and yourself despite how easy it is to fabricate who you are on the internet, if you want a relationship to last when it becomes "IRL" you need to be as authentic to who you are as possible in your communication, even if it's online. Two of the most important relationships of my life started online (my first boyfriend who I still love and admire very much and my current boyfriend and longest relationship whom I'm in love with). I think starting a relationship online has been so successful for me because it allows you to screen a person fairly well before committing to them, also you can do it with out the physical aspect of things getting too intense too quickly.

I also recommend letting your friends send you on blind dates or hook you up with their friends, they sometimes know you better than you know yourself (I met the remaining three men I've dated and one of my two girlfriends this way)

I DON'T recommend comic stores, book stores, video game stores, or conventions, I used to think it was a good idea, but I think it's mostly a good way to make friends, but as a girl I wouldn't want to be creeped on in a place I find sanctuary and want to be left alone at (although those places make good dates imo).

Big bang theory! I just started watching it this month and I'm already on season 4. I watch it 90% for Sheldon Cooper.

I are in matrix O_O?!... Oh noooos!

You realize it's becoming conformist to be the cynical scathingly insightful "aren't I so clever" non-conformist commenting on the conformity of the non-conformist uniform. ;p

Most of the girls on the site now don't have very "alternative aesthetics" because as the site has grown to being quite massive and well known, as a business the safer more toned down girls alienate the larger fan base less, and become smarter business choices for a growingly more and more mainstream member base. ;p.

When I was 13, had blonde hair, no modifications, shopped at old navy, I felt no more or less original then I feel now. Even now no matter how personal my style may feel, I don't have any disillusions about being a unique snowflake. Style is part accumulative and intuitive, you don't make something from nothing, you gather pieces of culture you find appealing, attractive, relatable, it stews in your mind, and manifests in how you choose to package yourself.

Everything has been done, I don't worry about standing out, just as much as I don't worry about being homogenized, I just like to wear and look however I'd like. I am not afraid of being influenced by my culture or counter culture just as much as I am not afraid of having a "creative and rebellious" response to it, I don't take any extreme too seriously as long as I am as authentic to myself as I can at any given time, even as the self inevitably changes and develops.

I consider myself to be very normal (besides being a bit of a misanthrope), although I'd hope my character would be more important in defining my humanity that then my aesthetic.

Thanks ^_^. I would like a sugar glider, an owl, a slow loris, a jelly fish, a squid, a cuttlefish, a axolotl, or a octopus! Someone in my family has a Hedgehog that they found as a baby and raised and it's really sweet and friendly, and it loves to eat baked Ziti, so they're pretty neat too. If we're talking fantasy a catopus/octopussy/cathulhu would be nice....

Personally I think nipples are MUCH more important then boob size, and in my experience talking about loving boobies with other people they generally agree. I can think a girl with any size is attractive but the nipples are the real game changer, I might be a cunt for saying it but nothing turns me off quicker then dinner plate nipples, and conversely nothing is as amazing as cute perfect perky little pink nipples.

Being a girl who is built like a 12 year old I can sympathize with sometimes coveting the huge boobies but there is so much to love about itty bitty titties, they are comfortable (you can work out or sleep on your tummy with out being in pain!), they are cute sexy, and they won't look disgusting and saggy when you get older! Also girls with itty bitties always focus on the fact that they can't pull off certain things that are seductive and show a lot of cleavage, but a skinny girl with little boobies can wear loose clothes and still look sexy and tiny, but a girl with huge tits pretty much can only wear flattering and form fitting clothing because otherwise her boobies make her clothes stick out so far that she looks chubbers. xp

Then again, nothing is as magnificent as overflowing, bursting at the seams, magnetically huge, tatas...

I guess I'm not a person to talk to about this because I am a all around boob lover.

Although I have to say, if I could choose a way to have it done I would go through the arm pit, "some people I know" have gotten it done through the nipple, and it's ruined there nipples and given scars or dark lines, and maybe it's just because I'm a nipple lover but it seems counter productive to get a surgery to enhance "sexual appeal" and "femininity" which makes you only look awesome with your clothes on and worse then before with them off...::shrug::

At the end of the day, it's your tits and your money, do what you like. If it makes you more comfortable to change something, you are lucky to live in a time where you are capable of having the choice to, more power to you.

I'm not at all against the idea of maintenance surgery when I get older, a little pull, a little tuck, with in reason. I think it's a bit cruel that men vintage, become silver foxes, while women decay and sag. That being said, I think you shouldn't put all your money, energy, and value on your flesh.

Not at all, I think nothings wrong with body modification, especially if it makes you feel better about yourself and is from your own need/want/desire as opposed to what other people want you to look like...we are just bags of flesh, mold yourself how you'd like...that being said I think there is a lot of merit in working with what your given and embracing it. My new favorite quote is "There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in it's proportion." and when we hold ourselves to a standard of beauty, we compare, instead of seeing the beauty in the differences, the asymmetry, and the flaws...

If you are asking if you can become an SG if you are not a US citizen then yes, you can be from anywhere and have any citizenship, you just have to make sure you are at least 18 years old (and in some locations over 21).

Haha..."rave music"? I like various types of ootz-ootz... electronica, agrotech, Industrial, synthpop, if it makes me want to close my eyes, wiggle, and feel happy about life I like it =).

To be healthy by staying positive, driven, optimistic, and fit! Woot!

Especially if I'm in a it "sucks to be me" mood this song makes me dance and feel better about my sucking: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMT2jq-suyU

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I always like an excuse to have fun. =)

It depends. If it was harmless and innocent I wouldn't. Friends pick on each other, and talk about each other to other to mutual friends, it seems pretty healthy and normal. Sometimes mutual friends of the same person know certain truthes about that person from being on the outside looking in that are funny and not malicious but that you can't really joke about to a persons face with out hurting their feelings (for instance A makes joke to B about how C did some quirky harmless but slightly embarrassing habit that she/he has, they laugh and say "Oh C. it's funny how she always does that, silly girl"...they weren't being cruel, but it might not necessarily make C feel good to be made fun of too much).

If it was actually fucked up or cruel and the person who was being made fun of thought kindly of and deeply trusted the person who was making fun of them It's a different story though. For instance if A was making malicious personal jokes about B, that could create cruel rumors/reputation or involved the divulging of secrets while B actually thought A was a good friend of hers then I would tell A that B maybe isn't the best friend in the world and she should just be careful about trusting her because she's says some cruel shit for sake of luls behind people's backs.

yups.