I'm more of a dominant being, although I do have quite a subby side when you get down to it. :P I am open to either role, although being dom seems to be the more preferred on (at least it was the last time I considered it.... my actions more recently have been showing quite the opposite tbh). For as nice as romantic is, rough is pretty much the way to go.... there's been times when I feel like romantic is what's needed, but in all the times I've been in a class with some hot guy and my mind travels to that realm, they're almost always bent over a desk and taking it pretty hard.... no romantic..... course... those would be considered rape thoughts...which would be rough in most cases. :X

I don't actually know about romantic...... it just doesn't register in my mind of something you'd do in a case that I interpret you to be eluding to...... but it is a case by case situation.... some people may get romantic while the rest will have ravaging... and if we need to get wet and wild, then so be it! >:3