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For the most part, I'm indiferent to specific vocabulary. The intent with which a message is delivered matters much more.
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I have had sex in the woods in the middle of winter, also in a park near to where I grew up in early spring (sadly, never when it's been warm) I've been fingered on a city bus and sitting in bleachers surrounded by people at a fire works display. No bears were ever involved.
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Thanks for the link. Lots of pretty people to look at for sure. I would not be interested in posting a pic there. The vibe is too sexual as opposed to erotic, sexual and body image positive. I really much prefer something like http://thethickness.tumblr.com/
Lately, it's been a lot of giant boob pics but there is a fair bit of chubby girl representation, which I think is awesome. If I had the chance to be properly photographed, I would be very happy posting my pic on a site such as that. -
I have had sex outdoors a few times, but it was never in a busy spot; therefore I've never been caught.
I don't really get aroused from the possibility of getting caught so it's not an experience I go out of my way to get. -
That's a hard question to answer. Honestly, I don't know. Closest I can come to providing a decent answer is saying that I strive to fill my life with activities I enjoy and people who make me happy and to whom I can provide happiness in return. Beyond that, the details get fuzzy and I'm just as happy to let things happen as they will. My life is an adventure, I don't like following a script.
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Lately I've been listening to Double Meat, Polyamory weekly. I used to listen to some others, but haven't in quite some time.
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The idea of the soul an eternal and reincarnation.
There is a hugely emotional component to holding on to ones soul. We are taught to believe that it is separate from our physical body, that we can "sell it to the devil", that it can be saved and that when we die, this part of who we are continues on in some fashion.
It's comforting to think that loved ones who've passed on remain with us on some other level of existence and might even come back into our lives through reincarnation. But that's all it is, empty comfort. In my opinion anyways.
As far as I can tell, the only thing that motivates people to hold onto the idea of the soul is purely emotional; it's irrational. There is no evidence at all to support its existence. I've come to the conclusion, albeit reluctantly, that it most likely does not exist.
Over time, a different perspective on the matter has given me comfort, one grounded in fact. I see all things in life as being interconnected at the atomic level. The building blocks of life do go on and and form new bonds. Plants, animals and even inanimate objects, in some way we all touch each other and the universe beyond. -
They are loud, flashy and dangerous. I'd probably still date a guy who drove one though. He'd likely know a thing or two about mechanics and that might come in handy with my p.o.s. car. I'm pragmatic like that.
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I don't eat cereal. Sometimes oatmeal, in which case, I like frozen wild blueberries on it.
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Polyamorous means to love many. Greek and Latin roots. For my husband and I, it means we date other people and have relationships outside of our marriage. We are friends with each others respective partners and feel as though we are extending our circle of intimate friends together, for the betterment of our relationship and those we love.
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I'm French Canadian, so by default, I was born Catholic. Neither of my parents are practicing Christians, but they followed the traditions of their heritage and so I was christened as an infant.
Growing up in Ontario, the only French primary schools were also Catholic and so I went to Catholic school until grade 8.
So far, none of this points to my actual personal beliefs, but I think it was important to lay down the foundation to explain myself better.
As a very small child I believed everything my father told me and we talked a lot. I started questioning what I was taught in school almost from day one, and would come home, ask him about the Christian god and he would ask me questions to get me thinking for myself. He always told me I had to make up my own mind.
My father is a brilliant man, but despite having taught me how to think critically, he himself holds onto all sorts of silly notions regarding all things woo. I in turn followed him in a lot of those notions.
I took first communion at age 7, because I was just following my class mates. By age 13, my grade was going to under go confirmation. I refused it. I was not convinced I wanted to pledge my life to Christianity and thought it hypocritical to accept. That year we moved and I changed school. The kids at my new school were just about to under go their confirmation. I refused again.
As a teenager, I explored into paganism, Buddhism, and basically lived as an agnostic.
In 2002 I met my husband and right away fell into conversation with him about our beliefs.
Through debate and self exploration with him, I've become atheist and also lost all attachments to anything woo I had been holding on to. It took me a little bit more than a year, but by the time I was 24 I had rid myself of a lot of things. I mourned for a while; feeling I'd lost my sense of wonder and possibilities. Once that had passed I embraced life for what it is and have loved seeing my world through a clear lens ever since. -
We met through Lavalife.com in November 2002. I messaged him, we exchanged emails for about a week, met up for tea and then Indian food. Been together ever since. :-)
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In the years that proceeded our stepping out into the poly world, we did discuss it at length.
Lately our conversations have been very short on the topic. There just isn't much to discuss. We do check with each other before making plans with a lover, and we keep each other fully in the loop as to what is going on.
Between James and I there are no feelings of jealousy whatsoever. We've seen each other hug, hold hands, kiss and to some extent be intimate with other people. There's never been an issue and I don't see there coming a time when there will be one.
From an emotional perspective, I think jealousy stems from a feeling within yourself that you are replaceable. A lack on confidence. For us, we live polyamory in the fullest sense and completely allow for romantic feelings and love to come into play with other people. Knowing that he is in love with another woman (which he is) in no way threatens what he and I have together.
When you are free to love whomever you want, why would you ever chose to stop loving one of your partners? There is no reason to exclude anyone.
Having said that, it's also been my experience that newer relationships don't afford as much security and feelings of jealousy and insecurity have surfaced with my boyfriend. He and I talk about them, and that is usually enough to snuff out the fire. He and I are also a long distance relationship which adds a huge element of complication. More and more though, I'm feeling secure with him despite how much time he spends in his other relationships. Rationally, I know there is no reason he shouldn't enjoy his life to the fullest with his other partners. I can't be there with him, so my feelings of jealousy have no place.
Understanding that each relationship stands alone, with its own merits is a large part of stopping jealousy. Things are wonderful with my husband, my boyfriend as well as my newest partner. I just try to appreciate as much as possible the wonderful things I share with each of them. -
I would say that the first 2 years of our relationship were very monogamous. Neither one of us were even familiar with the concept of polyamory in the sense of what we live now.
We went to see Kinsey in theaters and that was essentially how the conversation began. We spent numerous years talking about our views on love, sex, and relationships.
We've only been actively poly for a few months, but already we've met wonderful people, some of whom have become very important to us.
We've grown closer as a couple and have found nothing but positive energy and feelings surrounds us in this adventure. -
In all honestly, I don't think I've actually gone back to this particular site to watch any clips since I mentioned it last. I don't think I've watched any porn, come to think of it... I've been too busy interacting with real people and getting to know some new friends.
I have very recently met a man who used to be an active Dom thought and he and I have had a few very interesting conversations relating to the life style.
I am extremely curious about certain aspects of BDSM. I've also seen some really scary bruise pictures that scare the shit out of me. If things continue to progress nicely with this gentleman, I'd be very interested in experiencing what he has to offer. Who knows if it'll get to that point. I really get turned on the the idea of being submissive in bed (probably because I'm usually in charge IRL) but I'm iffy about the pain factor.
I have some limited experience with hot wax, clothes pegs, ice cubes; things of that nature. Given the right circumstances, the right person etc. I would be very interested in exploring this side of myself further. -
I hadn't yet, but now I have :) Thanks for sharing.
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For me, good porn is free porn. I don't know that I'd ever buy a video. I tend to get bored of the same scenes over and over again.
So if you're looking for free online porn, here are my recommendations.
I used to visit Worldsex.com but find that most of the clips are really much too short. Also, they don't offer previews, but only text link. So you end up wasting a lot of time just going through what's there.
Livesex.com has longer clips with previews to let you see ahead of loading what you're getting into and if it'll be worth your time. They've recently changed their format and I don't believe it's entirely free anymore, but there is still a good portion of it that is freely accessible. They also have their stuff separated by pornstar/amateur which is nice.
Youporn.com is another good site for free videos, although I don't go there very often.
Finally, if you're a sick twisted fuck like I am, you might enjoy some of the previews from BSDMplaypen.com As far as I know, they offer free 2 minute clips though. (That might be all you're able to stomach anyways.) I was never all that interested in watching BDSM stuff, but I really like the fact that they have little post adventure interviews with the subs, to give the audience a sense that these people actually enjoyed themselves as opposed to being victims of some twisted torture.
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I've enjoyed every naughty thing I've ever done, and would probably do most again, given the opportunity. Some of these naughty things include, sex in public, bondage, hot wax, anal sex. If watching porn is considered naughty, then that's another biggy for me. All sorts of porn as long as it's authentic. Don't like fake boobs and bad acting.
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James and I met through Lavalife. My first kiss when was I was 16. The guy was 19, very handsome and a total jerk. It was FABULOUS. Wonderful first kiss.
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Sophie
Nova Scotia
Sophie’s Bio
Atheist. Free thinker and general all around no rules type of girl.
