Well there's not much you can do if he's not talking to you at all. Honestly, him not wanting to hurt you by making you wait, sounds more like an excuse. I could be wrong but it's a pretty poor reason especially in a 5 year relationship.... I would say you should move on. You'll find someone better.

Well if he doesn't want a relationship, you should just move on and find someone else. It's going to take some time, more than 2 months but you'll be able to.

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If you guys are so close, you should talk to him about it and let him know how you feel.

You have to let go and move on. I understand it's not easy getting over someone who was your best friend but that's life. People come and go. There's nothing we can really do about it unless you want to try to sort out whatever problems you had. I can't give you any suggestions on that since I don't know what happened.

Two years isn't even a big difference so age shouldn't be a problem. About the cutting, don't be so foolish to cut yourself over a guy. It's pointless and honestly pretty dumb because if he doesn't like you, he won't care. And I know it can be pretty confusing when a guy gives you mixed signals. You need to just ask him straight up if he's interested or not because he's just wasting your time and energy by playing games.

If you're asking me about any pic you have submitted, I already have pics made in advance so if I do use the one you submitted, it's going to take a while & like I mentioned in my blog, not all pics will be used.

Oh yeah i got it.

I know that it's hard to ignore. There were people that would call me ugly too when I was younger. It would get to me but later I realized that it doesn't matter what they think, as long as I think I'm pretty. Their comments won't effect you unless you believe what their saying and I'm pretty sure that's not the case. If you feel beautiful and confident in who you are, so will others.

I got a lot. I'm not sure which ones yours.

I havent gotten any new pics in the past hr

Wow that's really fucked up. Sorry to say but he's not the right guy for you. He couldn't commit to you in the past 3 years and now you left you for an ex. Don't expect him to come back and if he does, don't take him back. He's not worth it.

Yes. You can submit and I might use them if they match the criteria. Did you just submit pics?

You did your part by apologizing so you shouldn't feel bad or regret it. Now she's the one creating problems. Do you really need a friend like that? I don't think so.

Let her copy you. It just means that you're better then her and wants to be like you.

Starving yourself is only a temporary solution. Once you start eating again, you put the weight back on and mostly like people gain twice the amount. Plus it causes multiple health problems. In the run long, it's not worth it.

If your best friend is understanding and caring like you then she will back away. Even if you let the guy go dor her sake, he isn't guna go out with her since he likes you. So not only is she lossing him, you are too. I think you should give him a chance and let your friend know how you both feel.

It obvious that you both like each other. If s/he isn't making the first move then you need to step up and talk about it.

You should find out for sure if he likes you as just a friend or more before telling him how you feel. I guess you could find out by trying to make him jealous. That sometimes works and if not then get your other friends to help by asking him.

See how he reacts when you're around other guys. If he gets jealous or possessive then he probably does like you more than a friend.