I would say pony play. I'd tried it only in passing once maybe 15 years ago, and was intrigued but was self-conscious about letting it become a regular thing. Now i love it...and I dont have nearly enough opportunity to make it happen.

Hm...does dancing on a pole in the back of a party bus during a leather barcrawl count?

Oh yeah...quite a few, actually. Pony play being the one that gave me the most difficulty accepting. While I always thought it was great if other people did it, I worried I'd feel silly if i ever tried it, even though it always appealed to me. When I finally DID try it, I discovered...well...it WAS silly! And playful, and fun, and also had the potential to carry a really deep head-space. Nowadays I enjoy it whenever I have the opportunity to strap the ears& tail & bit & bridle and gear on and horse around the dungeon. (Ha...see what I did there?)

I am turned on by the intention to turn me on. I am turned off by thoughtlessness. The skin is the most erotic body part.

Red Velvet are my favourite cupcakes.

The most ridiculousnessest suite at the top of the craziest hotel in Dubai, and another on my own private island there with a helicopter to take me back and forth and a full staff to wait on me.

Feeling like I was somehow disgracing my heritage by identifying as a slave when I am descended from American slaves, and betraying my feminist roots by desiring submission to a man. Whoops. That was two.

Yes. I am too far down the rabbit hole of submission to be attuned to a partner who isn't capable of topping me. It might amuse me to dominate another, but it would be akin to playful fun and not gut-level excitement.

I like being spanked hard regardless of whatever else is going on.

If they had promised fidelity and knowingly broke that promise, I would. Anything that breaks one's word is grounds for termination of a relationship. With so many relationship options available to humans, the person who deliberately lies in order to have another relationship exhibits the capacity to violate trust, and i am SO not a fan of that shit.

Yes.

Does it count if i imagine people naked when i hug them...?

I would suggest proceeding at your own pace, sharing your fantasies, and exploring the things that give you that lingering afterglow. There's plenty of information online and in books when it comes to exploring your kinky side. You are far ahead of the game because you are both interested and having fun! Don't lose sight of that. Check in with one another as you explore. Don't be afraid to trust one another as you do so. Kink can be an amazing way to explore and develop trust, connection, and sharing new types of energy together. I hope that you both grow, thrive and continue to get that glow when you play together!

I haven't noticed that....but I am a Mocentric user and only respond to questions people send to me. I don't surf around much.

I will advise if that ever occurs again.

Apparently, win an International Leather Title, because the last time I had sex, that was the last thing that happened afterward.

http://www.mollena.com/2008/10/fucked-under-500

Because I don't know who that is and it is now 2 weeks since i was sent this "question."

Complacency and acceptance of Very Poor Behaviours. Questioning of these is also trending which gives me hope.

I don't wear underwear often. When I do I like to be comfortable. By the time it is "falling off the ass" it is likely it isn't all that comfy any more so no, I probably would have gotten rid of it.