The fact that you're asking this question is a testament to your interest and i'm truly thankful that you're still checking in with us. i did a quick scan of our blog entries and the last pictures i came across were in March, so that's not "too bad". The video thing though, yeah that stinks. =/ Of course the store is still open for business and we have no intention of quitting, we will be making more videos!

Here's the brutally honest answer as to why we're slackers. Master is one of the most sentimental Men i've ever known and while that's a great thing it also makes Him a packrat. i've said that if He ever went through a life changing crisis He would be a hoarder of the worst kind and be on that hoarders show in a year.

He just really has always had a hard time letting go of things so that's what we've been doing the last year and 1/2. We've been sorting, recyling, cleaning and throwing things away. We are in a good place right now and nearly finished.

While we've been hard at work the last few weeks, this question just gives us one more push to get things finished up! It's a good feeling for both of us to know we're getting there!

Thank you for the question but even more for being interested enough to take the time to ask about us. =)

Actually, for me an orgasm is really pretty low on my priority list when Master and i are having sex. It's all about Him and making Him feel good. Nearly all my sexual satisfaction is emotionally stimulated. Once i know that Master is really turned on, it's then that i get physically stimulated as well. One fire lights another, if you will.

It takes a while to get my motor running but once i get going physically i still need mental and emotional stimulation to orgasm. So sex for me hasn't ever been about crossing the finish line, getting there is nearly ALL the fun! *s*

Master set a rule long ago that will never have an orgasm without permission so i don't know if there is any correlation to this next point i'm about to make or not, i believe there is. Not long after Master made that rule, i have no idea when, i found that it became more and more difficult to orgasm without thinking about Him in some way or another. i used to like to read romance novels or smut books and even those, had to be put aside and i was left with my thoughts of Master. To this day if i want to orgasm, i can't unless i think about Him. i think it's all about mental, emotional and physical conditioning and i wouldn't have it any other way. If one were to ask Him if He planned this into my training, i would think He might say this was just 'Happy Accident'. =)

Please forgive me for the length of time it's taken me to answer your question.

The simple answer to your question is; No one has been able to figure out the cause. i have had these headaches for going on 14 years now. The only thing anyone knows for sure is that i have cluster headaches http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cluster_headache, more commonly seen in men than in women. i've seen countless doctors and they've run countless tests and poked so many holes in me i could probably be sold for a sprinkler system. =p

At this point i'm not even sure how much time i've spent in the hospitals being made sicker than i was when i first entered. There simply have been no answers as to what is causing my pain. The only hope i've been given is that perhaps when my change of life happens there may be some lessening of the pain. Of course this would suggest that the pain is hormonal and could mean that the pain could subside completely. That is my hope!!!! =) =)

Thank you for the question. As long as i've been writing i don't believe i've ever really given an explanation as to why i have the headaches or their origin. i wrote a bit more about my pain when i first started blogging but then realized it was becoming redundant and as long as i'm going to write about my life as a slave, that's what i should write about!

i have learned some great tips for pain relief other than drug therapy though in my time dealing with the headaches. So there are some good things that have come from this. That and because of these headaches, i met Master, i never would have met Him had it not been for them. At this time i take only Tylenol for pain, i take no narcotics whatsoever. my MD has me on a daily med regimen to decrease the pain but i am on no addictive medication for pain control. At this time i am even working on reducing the frequency in which i take the Tylenol. That's what works for me.

Again, thank you very much for the opportunity to answer this question. =)

There really are so many things that motivate me to live my life this way, every day. i know you said it's not natural to submit to servitude but i'm not positive i would agree with that. Until very recently the woman was always submissive to her husband and the man was always the head of the home. Additionally, it wasn't until recently did couples begin to divorce so frequently. i know that the argument can be made that those women were kept in the confines of their marriage due to societal expectations, as well. However, i don't really look at it as such, i look at it as when one person is at the helm, things run smoother. That is why there is typically one head of a company with assistance as needed.

So i have strayed from the original topic to make a point, my life couldn't feel more natural. i crave everything that this life and Master offer me. i crave the structure and rules He has set in place, i love knowing that there will be very few gray areas for me. It will always be my job to support Him and He will always be the decision maker. my "job" in life is to please my Husband in every conceivable way, follow His rules and be the fun loving lady He fell in love with. The rest of the hard work falls on Him.

Slavery gets a bad rap, i am truly rewarded for my submission. There are times when i'm not fully present in my role, physically. Yet on those days i am no less of a slave than on any other. Master owns me, the whole of me, the best and the worst of me. i am completely free in my slavery, i have never felt as free and as carefree as i did the day He collared me and told me He would care for me the rest of my days.

i am very thankful for the opportunity to answer your question!

Hi ara,

Thank you so much for saying so and thank you as well for the follow. Welcome to blog land and i hope you enjoy blogging as much as i have. i'm really happy to have you as a reader. Please feel free to comment as much as you like on my blog!

Take care. =)

There are many ways from which i could approach this question, i am going to assume that you're not familiar with the dynamic i have with Master. Our relationship is multifaceted as is any successful, long term relationship be it Dom/sub or vanilla. i entered into this union under my own freewill, excited in the knowledge that i might possibly be allowed to serve as His humble and loving slave for the rest of my life, if He would only have me.

i have always craved control from any relationship i have ever been in and have always been submissive. There might be a fine line between control and abuse from the outside looking in, should you not have a clear view. Master asserting His control over me is precisely what i enjoy about being His slave. He is in control at all times, when He is in control, things run smoother, there is no power struggle and i am allowed to sit back and enjoy the ride. It hasn't always been that way, while i have always wanted to give up complete control and while i've always wanted to be His slave i had to learn how to be His life partner, His wife and His slave.

Are you lead to believe that a spanking or Master telling me that i must wear too much clothing in warm weather is abuse? i love that about this dynamic, i believe that knowing He has absolute power over me is what sets me free to make mistakes and gives Him complete control to bring me back to center every time i foul up. i trust that He'll never put me in harms way, when it gets too hot, He makes sure i am taken care of immediately. When we're not on the same page in our relationship, the spanking isn't about the spanking, it's always about reconnecting.

i have an emotional need to love Master and serve Him for the rest of my days. He allows me to be His slave and i am blessed.

Thank you so much for the reminder of who i am.

Peace to you.

Unfortunately your question was cut off.

Master has always loved seeing a lady dressed as a lady should be. A firm foundation garment being only one of the components making up the entire outfit, of course. He does enjoy seeing me in all types of girdles and thank you for saying so, as well! =)

As your question was cut short i'll guess here a bit. As with many of Master's rules, there is a rule regarding dress. It is as follows:

#31 your standard daily attire will consist of stockings (pantyhose with permission only), foundation garment/brassiere or AIO, skirt/blouse or dress, slip, heels of 2” minimum, non-granny earrings, rings (wedding minimum) and of course My nipple and labia rings. you may wear panties (for now) unless told otherwise. you will never deviate from this without explicit permission, and you may ask to deviate from it only with very good reason.

This rule was written quite some time ago and the panties have been taken away. He doesn't typically allow the 2" heel unless i am working steadily on chores throughout the entire day.

The "very good reason" has pretty much also been taken away. The rule of thumb around the house is, i will inform Master of my needs rather than ask Him for things. Instead of pleading for Him to change things for my benefit, i inform Him of a situation and leave the decisions up to Him entirely.

IE: "Master may i please go without stockings today, i'm going to be so hot working in the heat... blah blah..." That puts Him on the spot immediately with me standing there breathing down His neck waiting for a response to get dressed.

Instead: "Master i heard it will be around 100 degrees today". Leave it at that and go do something else until He gets back to me with His decision in His own time. He might tell me that i'll wear no foundation garment, stockings or slip at all. On the contrary, He may tell me that i'll be fine and take breaks inside as needed and to get dressed as usual.

On a typical day i am in my foundation garment from the time i am out of the shower and dry, until Master says it's time to go to bed. Even though we watch television laying on the bed, under blankets. i am completely dressed, other than shoes.

Hope this was close to an answer to your question~ i took a shot in the dark!

Thank you for the question!

MD's treasure

When i first came to live with Master i had a bit of an inner struggle, knowing that people around me, women mostly, were looking at what i was wearing and judging me. Over time though i realized that pleasing Master and becoming comfortable in my role as His slave was so much more important to me than anything anyone could think of me. So any judgements or dirty looks were pretty quickly tossed aside.

There were some questions as well, people thinking that Master was too controlling and mean to me. That He wouldn't allow me to wear pants or flats in different situations. That too took some time and as the family got to know our dynamic better they soon realized that Master wasn't only the one who wanted me to dress this way. Master's Mom was the most outspoken and i finally had to let her know that i am completely comfortable.

Now the way that i dress is simply, the way i dress. Quite honestly i don't dress in anything that one might consider extreme in any way, it's just different. Everything i wear can be purchased in any average store and with the exception of some pretty rockin' high heels i don't wear anything out of the ordinary, my daily wear is quite normal however. Women these days don't wear hosiery as much as they used to and few wear stockings and a girdle but that's not seen through the clothing.

Should you be referring to the fact that i was wearing the leather collar in public, this was totally an anomaly. During the summer months Master puts the eternity collar on me for the entire summer and i never get a comment. The only reason i hadn't removed the leather collar was because i had a turtle neck shirt on over the collar while in the store and while i was in the fitting room, the door was only open for seconds at a time. As a rule, if the collar is going to be seen, it's removed.

So you see this isn't just about sexual preference this is also a way of life and these are my street clothes. =) Like i mentioned earlier, i got over the judgements quickly and soon came to realize that there's nothing more important than living this life for Master and for me. If i could, if we could, we would be a bit more open with our lifestyle but at this time we can't. Maybe someday we will. In the past couple years we've taken some huge steps that we never thought we would, so we're getting there.

Thank you very much for the question! i hope answered you! =)

Peace to you!

At the moment i have an entire drawer in my lingerie dresser dedicated to slips. i could actually flow over to another drawer as i've acquire more. Without emptying the drawer and counting them i can't tell you exactly how many i have. Here is what i know for sure for colors; i have white, black, navy, cream, nude and one mint green. i have both half and full slips and for the most part they are standard slips with a small amount of lace at the bottom. i have found that the more lace a slip has, the less likely it is to stand up to many washings. The fancier a slip is, the less it was intended to be worn. As i wear my slips every day, most of them are quite lovely, very silky but simple so they'll stand up to many washings.

Last year Master ordered two slips for me from Amish people in Pennsylvania. Oddly enough the silkier of the two has become one of my very favorite undergarments. It's soft, unbelievably silky, cool in the summer time, warm in the winter and i just hate it when i have to launder it! This Christmas He bought me a full slip from the same people, made of that same material. i can't begin to tell you how much i love that one as well!! They are both very simply made, no lace whatsoever but gorgeous to look at! Another thing that i love about these slips is that there are no slits. It makes for a warmer garment and fuller look under my skirt or dress.

For a fancier night out i do of course have dressier slips with the lace detail. One black slip in particular has a double layer of lace and is quite a sight! =)

i'm always on the look out for pretty slips and it's amazing to me now how i always feel like i've forgotten something when i'm without my slip! ;)

Thank you so much for the question!

Yes! Now we do!! haha As of about 3 seconds ago, Master added a "follow by email" feature. Thanks so much for asking!! =)

i've been dressing like that for a couple years or more. All but the no panties thing, that is fairly new. Typically when i go to the doctor it's well thought out. If i know they are going to need to look at my upper torso, i'll just pull down my foundation garment when they leave the room and remove my bra. i have come to a point in my life where i am completely comfortable dressing in this manner. If someone else is uncomfortable with the way i'm dressed, they can ask me about it or be willing to accept me. The only thing that's ever given me pause were the piercings. The x-ray techs have always been very understanding and helpful though!

One time i needed a chest x-ray and they said they could work around the nipple piercings but they would prefer i take off the eternity collar. i just stood there and stared at them like a deer in the headlights. i said that i was so sorry but it locked on and i always left the key at home. i've never been quite so unprepared for a doctor appointment and i should have know this time, as ill as i was that there would be a chest x-ray, that was really my fault. The women at the desk couldn't even begin to imagine what i was talking about but after close examination of the collar themselves they accepted my explanation. Really, why would i lie? Since that time, Master and i have been much better prepared for things such as this! =)

Regarding clothing and undergarments, i am the first to admit that there was a long adjustment period in which i was self conscience. Even though my underthings were entirely covered up, i knew i was different from everyone else in the area. We live in a farming community where nearly everyone is more comfortable in blue jeans or sweat pants. It's almost unreasonable to think that a woman would willingly wear the kind of clothing that i wear more over, enjoy it? <gasp> It wasn't an overnight transformation, it took a while to get here and i'll certainly say that once i started wearing the all in one and stockings, i really found my sea legs! Very few people find it believable that i am just as comfortable in my clothing as they are in theirs. i can say for certain that jeans are less comfortable in many cases than skirts, for sure because a skirt, unless it's an ill fitting one, doesn't cut into ones waist, hips and legs. To each their own, for sure! i am very glad to be where, who, whose and what i am today!

Thank you so much for the question! =)

This is a great question and a terrific opportunity to explain the background on the picture in the previous post! =)

i was ill the day that picture was taken and Master is never all that happy when i don't join Him when He leaves for the day. This day was no exception and He was going to be gone for the entire day, working. He decided that if i was too ill to go to work, then i was too ill to leave the bed, all day. He told me that i would be allowed to remove the chain only to take the dog outside. For anything else, i would have to call Him. If He didn't answer the phone it would have to wait.

So that was my day, i was chained to the bed while Master worked all day and i wasn't allowed to leave the bedroom without asking. Keeping in mind that i wasn't feeling well, not up to eating much, Master insisted that i eat something, He brought me home some food. He set up my tray for me and brought me a plate of chicken. =)

i think your question is amazing in that it brings up so many wonderful points of interest. Master is my owner, to Him i am many things one of which is an object to be used. If His computer were broken He would need to repair it in order to use it, very much the same with me. When i am ill, He needs to care for me, to keep me in working order. If Master wants His property to function well, He recognizes that it needs rest and proper maintenance and yes sometimes pampering. The fact of the matter is, Master loves His property, much like one loves a dog, when His dog is ill, He pays special attention to it and nurses it back to health. In these situations, i am the property and the dog and the slave. i am also His treasure.

He loves me as much as i love Him and no matter what the situation is at the time, He will always be the Master and i will always be the slave.

Thank you so much for the question! =)

No and thank you for the question. It was a poorly worded phrase when i wrote it! What i meant by "putting everything back on" was all the locking cuffs and even Master mentioned that my statement was confusing.

Your question brings up a good point though, when i take a nap during the day i am not allowed to get undressed completely. During that time i am only allowed to remove my skirt and blouse if anything at all so during nap time i do sleep in my girdle and stockings and slip. Of course when i'm on the bed my shoes come off so as not to soil the bed clothes! =)

Once i'm dressed for the day, i stay that way until bed time and there is rarely an exception made. i'm not allowed to take my clothes off until right before we're ready to sleep. As our evening is usually spent watching TV in bed, Master will specifically tell me that it's time for me to get undressed and ready for sleep.

Thanks again for the question and for keeping me on my toes! hehe =)

i could tell you that i have my own limits of things i don't like. i could say that, but it would be a waste of time. When Master and i first got together, we put together an original contract and He actually let me participate some. Things were very new between us and it was a good way to establish trust. i expressed concern about asphyxiation and all things related to breathing. It terrifies me as i was born an asthmatic. He really did very little reassure me that He wouldn't push those limits and that really set the tone for our relationship. i was allowed to tell Him what i was afraid of, but that's where it ended, He was in complete control of what would happen from there.

Another example would be the hood, again very little cool, fresh air when i am in a hood. However, He has pushed my limits far beyond what i ever thought possible. Depending on the hood, i can be quite comfortable, other times i still have moments of anxiousness but it's up to me to overcome that. Master will do with His property as He sees fit at the time.

If we're talking about pain it is much the same story. i am not a pain slut, as it were. Master is not so much the sadist that He enjoys inflicting pain on me to see me writhe in pain for pain's sake. What He does appreciate is watching me endure a certain element of pain for total submission. If i deserve a punishment then sometimes He'll give me a fair dose of pain. No matter what the reason is, i have no say, ever.

There have been other activities as well. Master decided early on in our relationship that He would have nipple rings placed in me. i was terribly nervous but He took me to the shop, told the piercer what He wanted and it was done. Last summer Master decided that He wanted to have labia rings done, so He did it Himself, i had nothing to say about it.

To answer your question, there is no limit that i won't go beyond, my limit i suppose is ultimately my connection with Master. i trust Him and have complete faith that He knows what i can and cannot handle. i am His most prized possession (His words not mine), He won't damage me so much that i am worthless to him.

Thank you for the question!! =)

Firstly let me apologize for the length in which it has taken me to get back to you, times have been a bit hectic for Master and i. Secondly, congratulations to you and your Master, these are happy times for you, indeed! =)

This would be a two part answer for me i think. i truly believe that wearing Master's collar and serving Him is what i was put on this earth do. i was
really a novice to this lifestyle when i met Master, i knew the basics but that's about it.

Physically taking the collar off was never my choice, once it was on me it was on to stay. The rule was that i would never take it off except to shower and then i had a shower collar or in public until we got a public collar to wear.

There were times however that i was unsure of my own performance and submission. i never wanted to remove it or give it back, i was always concerned that i would disappoint Him. Just like in the beginning of every relationship there were doubts, i was very far away from everything and everyone i knew and everything about this relationship was foreign to me. Every new experience though was just one more gave me more confidence in Master and more faith in my own ability to submit to Him.

It hasn't really changed today. i continue to grown in my submission to Him. i learn how to please Him all the time. The more i learn about Him, the stronger my submission becomes.

Blessings to you on your journey may you find the joy that i've found in serving my Master.

Peace to you!

Master is my first real life Master, yes. i learned of BDSM on line through a couple of different avenues. i was quite green when i became His slave, that is certainly true enough! =)

i must say though, there was really no persuading needed. Once i learned of this lifestyle and what a submissive was i was hooked and anxious to become owned. i didn't know all the ins and outs of slavery vs submissiveness nor did i know a lick about bondage. What i did know was that i wanted to serve and i wanted to do it to the best of my ability. i also knew that it was going to take a forgiving Master because while i was eager, i was new and i have some short comings.

So really, i needed no convincing to become His slave, or sex slave at all. i jumped at the chance. As a matter of fact, i even submitted a written resume' to Master, listing all my qualifications! HA! HA! =) i bet if i asked Him, He's still got that resume' archived somewhere in an old email exchange.

Maybe i should be embarrased how "easy" i was when He went looking for me or maybe i should feel like i was a sleeze, but i don't. i just had a feeling that this was the right thing from the get go. Master moved me here exactly 30 days after we met on line. We knew what we wanted and we've been going strong ever since. =)

Thanks so much for the question!!

There are a couple different elements about the bathroom and privacy rule here. Yes He definitely wants and has had complete control over my privacy. i have never been allowed any privacy, that's always been a rule. This is the exact rule as written: #21 you will keep no secrets from Me, unless they involve surprises or gifts. This is another rule regarding privacy, as written: #22 you will have no privacy from Me. you will not close a door between us without permission (except doors leading outside).

So as you can see privacy has always been something that He's had complete control over. The bathroom element is something new though, even before i had to ask permission to use the bathroom, He would sit on the bed and watch me while i went to the bathroom. i've always been really private and this was horrifying to me. Since then it's been easier and easier for me to be open in front of Him.

He has given me no choice but to lay it all out there for Him no matter how horrible it was for me. Master is by no means into bathroom or scat play but what He is into is objectifying me and making me as pliable as possible. This is a pretty effective way of doing so. =)

Thank you so much for the question!

First off let me apologize, part of your question was cut off, so i'll do my best to guess at the last portion of your question.

i dress the way i do because i came here to be the best slave i know how to be, to Master. i want to be molded into His perfect slave and yes, part of that is dressing the way He wants me to dress. i knew portions of what He wanted from me, when i came here but i didn't know the big picture. i only knew that He wanted me in heels and skirts/dresses. The rest came in due time.

You're right, i have grown entirely accustomed to it and i'm not at all shocked by that. my Grandma lived nearly her entire life in a girdle, stockings and heels. So even though i didn't take after her until later in life, i grew up around it and it's not something i'm unfamiliar with. Today, i look so much like her, it's astonishing.

i can't imagine wearing pants anymore. Skirts are so much more comfortable than the pants i used to wear. i used to have a terrible time in the summer months buying shorts that fit properly and wearing stockings couldn't be more convenient for just about everything.

The whole "pant system" works against you. i have skirts for summer and winter that keep me warmer and cooler than i've ever been in pants. In the winter when your legs are able to be together you can trap the heat in, with a wool, lined skirt. With pants your legs are separated with only material to keep you warm.

In the summer you wear a loose flowing skirt or a shorter skirt allowing a cool breeze.

Thank you for the question!! =)

MD's treasure

When Master and i first got together i really knew nothing about bondage and to this day i definitely say i'm not a pain slut. Neither Master nor i are really into the pain aspect of the lifestyle but He enjoys giving a really good spanking once in a while and of course i will endure whatever punishment i have coming to me. Reason being naturally is because it's important to me to endure whatever He wants to put me through, no matter how difficult it is. i trust Him that He'll push my limits and He knows when to stop and when enough is enough. What i do enjoy is knowing that i've pleased Master and if He believes that i should be beaten or spanked for some reason and i tolerate it for Him, and He is pleased with me, then i most certainly get enjoyment out of that. =) It might not be the sexual satisfaction you're talking about, it's more from a service standpoint.

In the time that Master and i have been together i have grown to enjoy some forms of bondage. Like i mentioned, when we first got together i was really a novice and knew nothing so everything i know now, i've had to learn to love. i love the peacefulness that comes with being totally bound and helpless. Knowing that there is nothing that i can do until He decides to allow me my freedom. There is total peace in that, there is little worry because He has taken all my cares away at that point. It's not easy for me to let go but once i have, then i can really relax. i love the box that He's built for me, the solitude that it provides and the total darkness.

i'm not sure i would say that bondage isn't a sexual turn on for me because i'm not a masochist but i do love the helplessness and complete control He has over me. (Which seems almost redundant, when He already has that without the binds!). There is definitely a sense of excitement when the timing is right. =)

Thank you for the great question!

We do work in a church. The fact is, i wear the same clothing no matter wear i am. The girdle i wear, nor do the stockings show through my garments. i also wear a slip so i am fairly careful. The shoes i wear depend on the situation, i wouldn't ever wear something that would be considered blasphemous to the church. my daily wear shoes aren't really anything i would consider fetish wear.

Regularly, i wear sandals, wedges, pumps, Mary Jane's you name it. They just happen to be out of the norm for the average woman in our area.

The one thing that might be a point interest would be the collar. If we were careless and i went into public in Master's leather collar then yes, i believe that it might be quite awkward. During the winter months, i wear a turtle neck shirt nearly every day just for this reason. This way i'm able to leave the house, donning the leather collar and no one is wiser. During the summer months, Master uses the eternity collar much of the time. It passes for a necklace quite easily and it's something i can hop in and out of the pool in, without having to hassle Him with! =)

As long as no one would see me with a collar on, no, i wouldn't feel the least bit odd wearing Master's collar inside the church i am Master's slave in every location, inside and outside of God's house. i love God whether i am in His house or not why should i feel awkward doing something in His house that He already knows i do, if i'm in His house or in my Master's house?