I'm in highschool, but can't stand to be touched (especially not hugged). I've done OT. This is my main problem with SPD, and people think I'm cold and stuckup cause I can't stand hugs. Any tips or advice? (people often think I'm just making up SPD)
Hi CiscoBravo. I'm so sorry that people think you're 'making up' SPD. That must hurt. You know what? Touch is one of my daughter, Jaimie's, biggest hurdles still too...even with all the OT she's had! What you need to do is find your own way to 'touch' people in a way that's comfortable for you. Jaimie reaches out by doing special things for others--she uses her creative side to 'reach out' (eg: writing, drawing, etc.). She also likes 'High Fives' or funky handshakes or similar gestures. True friends 'get' that and won't think it's weird or cold. Tell those people to read Jaimie's posts on 'The Gift'! She gives so many ways people can interact w/her without having to touch her!!! And for those that don't belive in SPD: you tell them to go to SPD Foundation's Website. It is as real as YOU or Jaimie. Feel free to write any time.
Chynna
