Ask me anything
I do blog, but not on that site.
I'd be more than happy to answer these questions for you either through email, or by you posting here with a username/profile.
You're wanting to discuss an issue which I have already discussed publicly on my blog and Facebook, a few times now, but you want to do it anonymously.
If you are truly concerned about these issues, and me, you will ask them with a username/profile that is legit, or through a legit email address.
I would put the same one that I got in a cookie back in 1997 when I first moved here, it says the following:
"If you and I agree all the time, one of us becomes unnecessary."
I just love it.
I only have the 1 blog, yes, and I know that my posts are sporadic, but it's because of my health. I have a great deal of trouble sitting up for long periods of time these days, so like right now, I'm on here and FB by using my cell phone and the apps, because I can do that laying down on the couch.
I've tried to blog by phone, but it doesn't work for me.
I update my blog when I can, and yes I do make some money from blogging, but luckily a lot of the ads are automatic, and the less I post, oddly enough, the higher my pagerank goes, so the auto-ads are still making me money even without posting to my blog.
Thank you for being concerned, I appreciate it very much, and I promise, that I will try to post an update to the blog tomorrow. =)
LoL!! Only if that cupcake was a Red Velvet cake, with real cream cheese frosting on the top and some inside of it.
Sorry Shell!! Hahahaha!
Nope, I don't pay much attention to any of it, and as of right now, it does not and has not, had any negative impact on me, so I'm not concerned as of right now.
Sorry, it's a secret that I will take to my grave.
I would lay my life down for my best friend Shell, she knows this, best friend/secret keeper for life.
I can't do without any of them, they all play a vital function in one's life.
None, I don't have aspirations or dreams of being famous.
A really old, beat up, t-shirt with a ton of holes in it...LoL
That's very possible, anything is a possible reason.
When he talked to Mark last night, he said that everyone was just really nice, showering him with tons of attention and gifts, and I'm sure they are.
It's the honeymoon phase, everyone is happy to see him, he was only supposed to be there for a month, a month-long vacation, so they are giving him tons of attention and affection, gifts, but it won't be like that every single day all year long.
And the school he will be attending in Maine is far worse than his school here. Way worse. I grew up in Maine, I had friends who went to that school, it was horrible back then, and according to those same friends who still live there, it's gotten far worse.
His school here, he's fast-tracking, so his credits are different, they are less, so In Maine, he won't have enough credits going in, so he will be a junior, and instead of graduating this year, he'll graduate in 2 years.
My health may be bad, but I have always taken care of my bills and them, no matter how sick I have been, I have always taken care of my family and bills.
As far as the bills, the rent is always paid, the electricity and water are always paid, the cable is a non-necessity, so I can put it off if I need to to make sure that the other bills are always paid and there's food in the house.
The games they play, WoW, Xbox live, Runescape, PSU, those are always paid on time every single time they are due as well.
Anytime that he's asked for something, a video game, a game upgrade, I do it on my very next payday or whenever I have money in any of my accounts, I always get them both anything that they ask for that will make them happy, and their video game subscriptions are budgeted into my monthly bills.
The reason doesn't really matter, the legal issues do, but again, I will support whatever decision he makes because I love him.
So if he wants to live there, I will go back to court and relinquish my custody, I will transfer his school records, and he can live there and his dad can take care of all of his needs.
If ordered to pay child support, I will, and I will pay it every week and in full, there won't be any missed or lesser amounts of child support paid like what I dealt with for 17 years, the child support for him will always be paid because he's my child and it's my responsibility to pay for his care.
There will be no fighting and no issues from me.
I only want what is best for him, and what will make him happy.
My door will always be open though if he decides after a period of time that he wants to come back.
Unlike other people in this situation, I will not, and I am not, placing my personal feelings onto him.
I am not trying to guilt him into coming back home.
I will do whatever he decides, it's his decision, no personal feelings from me, absolutely no guilt, I will just do whatever it is that he wants that will make him happy.
That is all that I have ever wanted for both of my sons, that they be happy.
Thank you very much for your question, I appreciate it, and I also appreciate how concerned and supportive people are being in this situation.
It's one of the most difficult situations that I have ever faced in my 17 years as a parent, but I will get through it, I will continue to love him and support him no matter what happens.
That's what a parent does, they love and support their children no matter what.
Yup, I posted this to myself to explain why I deleted 2 items. They weren't questions, they were spam links.
Spammers go after us in our email accounts, on our blogs, on Twitter, and if they could, they'd go after us on Facebook.
Rotten fucking spammers need to die. Painfully.
The kindest thing anyone has ever done for me was to help me survive when I first had to stop working and was waiting on being approved for disability. The kindness of friends and strangers on the internet help me pay my rent and bills so that my sons and I wouldn't be homeless.
I will never forget the kindness and generosity shown to me during that time.
I think about that period of time, how hard it was, but then I remember how great people were, how much they cared and offered to help me, and it blows me away.
I will never ever forget it.