Oh, it was definitely all of the marriage advice I received in the year before my wife and I married. Ranging from "just show up at the alter and don't have an opinion on anything" to "Make sure she knows her place - you have to put your foot down and tell her who's boss".

Most of the advice came from people who are divorced or have horrible marriages. Shocking, no?

And now that my wife is pregnant the cycle continues, only this time with parenting advice. :-D