Just ask them! Think of an interest you share with whoever it is that you like, and invite them to do something related with you. Explore a photogenic sim, go to a club, try a medieval roleplay area, or whatever you think you would both enjoy. Remember that confidence is sexy, and thankfully it's much easier to fake online than it is in real life!

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