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Yeah I'm surprised her career wasn't bigger too. She was quite likable.
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Kristen/Kirsten Stewart (can't even remember her name). She has got to be the most unpleasant, drab girl in Hollywood right now. There is nothing striking about her aesthetically, the girl can't even crack a smile for a camera, she's not charming or funny, she has the character of a dish cloth and her acting is lackluster. And she literally WAS sucking the D of her director so, there's yer answer.
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I'm just answering this to see if it shows up on my profile since nothing has for the past 2 days
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I only play Candy Crush Saga.
NONE of my answers are showing up. I know some people can see them because of smiles and comments but my feed and profile just are not updating at all. Whyyyy how do I fixxxxx, even using Safari doesn't make a difference! -
Manners. Manners and etiquette.
My son is complimented almost daily on his manners, even just saying please/thank you/you're welcome. When I say "complimented" I don't just mean praised (I still praise my kids every time they use their manners myself) but they say things like "He has the best manners I've heard a child use!" which is surprising to me. Are kids really not learning to say thank you? Geez, man. I'm scared to send him off to school if he's going to be surrounded by a bunch of ungrateful bratty little baboons.
I'm pretty sensitive towards manners, I don't know why. I feel disrespected if someone fails to use them in their interactions with me. -
Yeeeea.
A number of reasons for different people. Misunderstandings that were never resolved, personality incompatibility, hurtful things said in conflict...but then for some others...I just don't even know. I can only assume it's just an incompatibility. -
Yes I always said he was one of my favourites growing up. I really like him And Sylvester. I hated Tweetie, absolutely hated it.
I was never a Looney Tunes fan, though. I generally disliked it. Same with Disney stuff. I was just never attracted to that style of animation - I'm still not. I liked things to be more bright, colourful, cute and more basic. Looney Tunes and Disney's animations were always too detailed and kinda dreary to appeal to me. I was more intoooo say, stuff on Nickelodeon. -
To me personally, sex and bodies aren't a commodity. It's about intimacy, chemistry, a connection. Ideally, love. But I can enjoy it without that. I couldn't be a sex worker because I'd feel I was losing my integrity and personal morals.
But I guess if someone WANTS their body and their sexuality to be a commodity then I'm not about to stop them. They own it, they can do as they please.
I'll admit though that I'm made uncomfortable by the presence of brothels and strip clubs in high-traffic public places. My friend has shown me photos of her city where there's neon XXX signs and whatnot outside a brothel right next to a freakin' KFC where kids probably go for lunch. I just...I don't like it. WON'T SOMEBODY THINK OF THE CHILDREN!
In short, I wouldn't feel comfortable telling people what to do with their own bodies but at the same time I wouldn't be comfortable raising my kids in an area that openly sells sex to the public on every other street. -
ONE, DICKHUNGRY SLUT.
Nah. No number; for me it's not the number, it's more the attitude of the person. I can't respect someone, male OR female, who sleeps around completely indiscriminately - using people for sex when the person would be hurt to know they're being used, leading people on, breakin' hearts, cheating, home wreckin', not being tested or disclosing STI status, that kind of thing. Just having a really dangerous, unhealthy and selfish attitude about sex.
Now I'm all for this anti-slut-shaming train we've got going on at the moment. I've been to Slutwalk, I hate victim blaming as much as anyone else but I feel like we've lost sight of how it originally started out. Pointing out that style of dress doesn't make someone a slut, there's no such thing as asking for rape, that sexual activity doesn't make you worth less as a person. I get that, I'm with that. But I'm not going to pretend that it's TOTALLY COOL AND OK to use sex in a way that hurts others, whether intentionally or through just being mindless and selfish. You're a slutty asshole if you do that in my book, girls and boys. -
I'm OK. Not good enough to ever be...well, good at it, but that's just because I'm not good at any performing arts, not because of stage fright. I'm fine giving speeches or whatever.
My only issues are that...I'm just not a great talker in general. I stumble over words, stutter sometimes (rarely, but it happens), probably don't enunciate enough...I feel like my mouth shape (tiny mouth, big overbite) kind of impedes my ability to talk nicely.
I'll admit - at the start of my YouTube stint, I was asked more than once if I was "actually retarded" and I remember making a vlog in response, standing in front of the camera fiddling with a thumb drive around my neck (I was studying IT at the time and we called it our nerd bling) explaining "I'm not retarded, I just have this overbite..." awkwardgiggleawkwardgiggle.
But then when I look back on my YouTube...well it's possible I am Actually Retarded. -
I'm OK. Not good enough to ever be...well, good at it, but that's just because I'm not good at any performing arts, not because of stage fright. I'm fine giving speeches or whatever.
My only issues are that...I'm just not a great talker in general. I stumble over words, stutter sometimes (rarely, but it happens), probably don't enunciate enough...I feel like my mouth shape (tiny mouth, big overbite) kind of impedes my ability to talk nicely.
I'll admit - at the start of my YouTube stint, I was asked more than once if I was "actually retarded" and I remember making a vlog in response, standing in front of the camera fiddling with a thumb drive around my neck (I was studying IT at the time and we called it our nerd bling) explaining "I'm not retarded, I just have this overbite..." awkwardgiggleawkwardgiggle.
But then when I look back on my YouTube...well it's possible I am Actually Retarded. -
No, it's not. I just typed out a big long answer and it's not appearing on my feed or profile which is annoying. I hope it shows up soon.
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Maybe it was the way you worded it? I wouldn't say I have CONTEMPT or hatred for weakness, but I do find it mildly irritating. I'll admit that, growing up as a kid, I did find that snotty-nosed weak little classmate with the shitty immune system to be unpleasant. And I felt annoyed by it.
I think it's kind of natural to feel some degree of aversion to weakness just because biologically we're supposed to be tuned to find a healthy, genetically ideal mate. Many of us learn to switch that off, via social conditioning or just having a personality that easily suppresses those primal and archaic instincts and urges, and most of us now are compassionate and tolerant and accepting of people from all walks of life.
I call them archaic instincts because in this day and age it's really not so important to attract the top dog, leader of the pack kind of mate. We've had advancements in medicine that treat and overcome poor genetics and we don't need a Herculean hunter to put food on our table.
The kind of weakness I'm aversive to these days is loss of temper. If you never lose your temper, you never lose control, and that's a very admirable thing in a mate (or friend, anyone!) to me. Loss of control over oneself is weakness to me and I find it extremely unattractive.
Unfortunately I'm a fiery little dragon myself and can't boast having such a trait. But my husband does and I love him for it - and, compared to how I USED to be, he's made me better too. I see, in him, how much more of a force to be reckoned with you are when you keep calm and stoic, in comparison to how much of a weak and volatile failure you look when you lose control. -
No, but I have a feeling you do.
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Yes, I have a distinct memory of doing so, but I can't recall which movie it was. Actually, I'm preeeetty sure it was King Kong...it was just too bloody long and nowhere near good enough to justify sitting on our damn arses for over three hours.
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I feel like, as an Aussie who only really hears about the main players in US politics, I could just tar all republicans with the same brush - wealthy straight white racist bigoted sexist homophobic male. Ron Paul is just another one of those as far as I've read.
I'm sure there are some nice republicans out there but eh, you guys should really work on cleaning up the image your front men are sending out to the rest of the world 'cause it's making you all look like a bunch of huge assholes. Like Tony Abbott but worse. -
I think the emotions themselves aren't a choice - they're the result of chemicals, hormones and neurotransmitters in our brains and bodies. We can't actively and directly control them.
BUT! We can control our actions and our thoughts, to some degree. Can I control whether or not I develop feelings for someone? Nope. But if those feelings are inappropriate or unwanted, I can sure control my actions which will in turn (and in time) control my feelings. I can force myself to distance myself and given enough time, I'll fall out of love with someone as a result of never seeing them.
If I'm feeling down, I can stay home in the dark and wallow in loneliness and allow my thoughts to drive me deeper into a hole of depression. Or I can force myself to pick up my phone, call a friend and arrange a meet up even if I don't really feel like it, and probably end up forgetting all about my troubles at least for a little while, smiling and laughing.
Your actions, environment and thoughts control your feelings. What you DO and how you THINK about something determines how you FEEL about it. If you have unhealthy thoughts, you'll have unhealthy feelings. That's why therapy (specifically cognitive behavioural therapy) works so well on many people; it teaches how to identify unhealthy thoughts and replace them over time with healthy ones, thus changing your feelings.
So yeah, I believe you can choose to be happy - but not just by flipping a switch. You need to acknowledge that you're in control of your life and take charge. Change what makes you unhappy, tiny step by tiny step. Do, think, feel. You control it all.
Please note that I'm discussing neurotypical, mentally healthy people in this answer. Some people with mental disorders could go out on a picnic with great friends and feel the sun's warmth on their skin and eat delicious food and still think "I fuckin' just wanna die". But that's due to "abnormal" chemical production/levels in the brain and in some cases that requires medication to resolve or alleviate, not just therapy and healthy thinking. -
I dislike him and I'd never vote for him. Ever.
He's racist (he's a "Birther", believes there's a "Muslim problem", has been sued for race discrimination, etc), sexist ("It doesn't matter what the media says as long as you've got a beautiful young piece of ass"), greedy (only donated a few million out of his billions over a ten year period), has been partnered with drug traffickers, gangsters and leaders of prostitution rings involving underage girls, he's anti-equality in every aspect of life from same-sex marriage to race to gender.
It's like he's trolling politics...well, it SHOULD be, but there are actually some strange backward folk who actually LIKE him. That's pretty scary. -
I don't think it's weird, but for me the spitting part would gross me out!
Felching and snowballing fetishes are more common than you'd think! I'd put them on the "kinky but not crazy or outright weird" end of the kink spectrum. They're not fetishes of mine personally but I can still find them hot and enjoy them. I would do it ~if~ my ~partner~ just happened to have a really really really big fetish for it. Just sayin'.
...ok ok he does. But shh I didn't say that.
I suppose the spitting part is just a sort of related fetish...another oral "thing". I don't think it's weird, but spitting and saliva are things that gross me out personally. I'm able to clean up feces and all other bodily fluids with no qualms, but saliva is where I struggle...which is weird, I know, you'd think it'd be the easiest. I just hate it! I hate the smell of stale sour spit. And being spat on really triggers an intensely negative response in me, probably because I've been spat on aggressively before and the way it made me feel was utterly belittling and not in a way I could ever find sexually arousing. It's an instantaneous rush of anger and triggers my defenses - I'm pretty sure I'd lash out and flatten someone before I could even stop myself if they spat on me nowadays regardless of the context, even if it was during sex with someone I love! So if you, too, feel THAT way about it, then definitely don't force yourself to do it just to satisfy someone else's desires.
But on the other hand, if you're not too weirded out by it and you're up for trying something new, it might be awesomely fun and exciting to see how crazy you can drive him by letting him act out this little fetish of his. You might get into it and love it too! But only do it if it's something you're cool with...or indifferent about. If it makes you feel weird or negatively, tell him so.
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Emmalina’s Bio
Tasmania, Australia
Married 24 year old Aussie mum, Disability Support Worker, procrastinating Uni student and feisty geek. Lover of all things quirky and offbeat.


