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His idea, I think. When we were dating, he called me "sweetie" on a few occasions and it rubbed me the wrong way (even before I was aware of D/s).
Later on, after my introduction to D/s, I decided to give him some rules. This was among them: "Don’t call me 'baby,' 'honey,' 'sweetie,' or any other diminutive pet name."
We never discussed "Ma'am." He just started using it, it felt right, and it stuck.
With that said, I *swoon* when he uses my first name... my real name. It's suits me and I've grown to love it. He doesn't do it often, but It's one of those things that makes me melt. :)
Thanks for the question. :) -
Any beauty I possess takes far too much effort. :) My funny is all natural, un-enhanced, and preservative-free. :)
Also, thank you for the sweetness. :) -
Anal.
Yeah. I know that didn't make sense. Maybe that will teach you to stop asking me stupid questions. Also, fuck you Formspring! You make me look... again... and all I get is the disappointment of realizing no actual people asked me any actual questions. Fuck you and fuck your questions and fuck your widgets, too. -
Fuck you, Formspring. Stop asking me questions. I keep getting excited that I have a real question from a real person. All you bring me is disappointment.
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Only recently found me? I can't believe that! I'm all the rage.... trust me. All the cool kidz are reading me. But seriously, thank you. It's always good to hear that people are reading and enjoying my writing. :)
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Yes. (evil, satisfied grin)
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Thanks Ferns... why are you spying on me? It's fine. I like it.
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Yes... far too many crazies on CollarMe! I bailed!
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Thank you, submichael. :) Your comments always brighten my day!
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What part does romance play (if any) in your Dominance? I'm not sure what you mean by "romance"? If you mean chocolates and roses and candlelit dinners, then romance plays little or no part it my dominance or in my current relationship.
Now I'm wondering, what is romance? According to the OED, romance is "Ardour or warmth of feeling in a love affair; love, esp. of an idealized or sentimental kind." If we're going with that definition, certainly, there is love and warmth, but it's not idealized or sentimentalized. If anything, I'm too much of a realist about the whole thing.
According to Wikipedia, romance is "love emphasizing emotion over libido." I don't think that definition works for me because I can't separate emotion from libido--one isn't over the other--they're mutually informing. I want to fuck boy because I feel something for him, and I feel something for because I fuck him.
According to Cleverbot, (a dear friend who I could chat with for hours) "Romance is the appreciation of two people who are celebrating the lucky coincidence that they found each other." This kinda works for me because it allows romance to be a celebration without defining what that celebration looks like. If we're going with the bot's definition of romance, then yes, romance does play a part in my relationship and in my dominance too (since the D/s dynamic is integral to the relationship).
Do you love your boy? Madly. I love him and I'm in love with him.
Have you ever played with someone that you have no real emotional attachment to? Yes. I have played with people I've had little emotional attachment to. Those experiences weren't as broadly fulfilling as playing with the boy who I am attached to. They weren't nearly as interesting, either. -
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Dumb Domme’s Bio
Miami, FL
In life, in relationships, and in bed, I'm obsessive, clumsy, and prone to making bad decisions.
