Hvis man ikke kan finde ud af at bruge beskyttelse, om det så er kondom, p-piller, spiral eller hva' fuck det end hedder, skal man ikke have sex. Det er dybt uansvarligt. - "Men det er også uansvarligt at slå et liv ihjel!" Er der jo så nogen der mener.. Jeg mener, at man først er uansvarligt, når man har ubeskyttet sex og ikke kender til konsekvenserne af ens handlinger.
Det er hendes valg, det er jeg godt klar over, men jeg tror nu også, at hendes forældre har en hel del at skulle have sagt her også. Det bliver højst sandsynligvis dem, der skal opfostre barnet som en "lillesøster/bror". - Ja, hvis det ikke bliver vores skattepenge, der kommer til at gå til det projekt "barn føder barn."
Jeg tror ikke helt hun ved, hvor stort et arbejde det er at have et barn. Tror hun har en eller anden uvirkelig opfattelse af, at sådan en bare skal have lidt mad, søvn, et bad i ny og næ, og så er det godt. Et barn kræver langt mere end det. Det kræver stabile rammer, en mor OG en far, der er i stand til at forsørge barnet. Derfor jeg hentyder til vores skattepenge. Et 14-årigt barn har ikke de nødvendige økonomiske eller personlige ressourcer det tager, at have et barn. Så vi kommer nok til at skulle indirekte betale hende en helveds masse støtte.

Jeg synes man skal vente, til man har en god kæreste, et hjem og de nødvendige økonomiske ressourcer i orden, før man sætter et barn i verden. Kan mærke jeg bliver helt vred..

Ja, jeg kunne blande mig udenom, for det er ikke mit valg, men den eneste måde man kan få hende lidt til fornuft, er at skrive tingene sort på hvidt, og håbe, at hun læser med.

Hvis du gør, du 14-årige: Så tag og få den abort, vent nogle år, og prøv igen. Det kan godt være vi kun lever én gang, men det er lige netop derfor, at du ikke skal fucke det op i en alder af 14 år. :)

W00t Dafuq?

Det mest iøjnefaldende er, at han sammenligner det med dyresex og pædofili.

Dyresex = mand/kvinde + dyr uden sprog og mulighed for at sige fra.

Pædofili = mand/kvinde + lille barn. Den voksne er så meget større, og selvom barnet siger fra, kan det trues eller fastholdes af en større og stærkere person.

Homoseksualitet = kvinde + kvinde eller mand + mand. Alle har selv valgt at springe ud som homoseksuel, og de er sammen fordi de kan li/elsker hinanden. De er begge indforstået med situationen og begge kan li det.

Synes den sidste definition er meget langt væk fra de to andre. I det hele taget, så synes jeg, at det at to personer elsker hinanden, ligegyldigt køn, er noget af det smukkeste i verden.

well, I am not quite sure to write this without saying too much on formspring that I'll regret. It's not that I am ashamed, but people judge very easily. Well, fuck the people, I'm gonna share a bit of it.

As I said before, I was ill as a teenager and when I was hospitalized I began to talk to a lot of those people who were sick too. I wanted to know more and help them, as I saw them suffer every day in their minds. By watching that for about a year, hospitalized 3 times, I began to think, that if I once became healthy again, I wanted to help them.

But then I changed my mind as I realized that if I had to listen to people every day telling about their problems, I wouldn't be able to keep a sane mind myself. I would take their problems on my shoulders. So that's why I quit that idea. But I still have a need of helping people. :) So that's why I am a car taker today.

Translated:
If you could go back in time and pick one specific day you would be able to live once again, which day would you pick?

The day I met my boyfriend. I remember my first impression was, that he looked so good, but had a very feminine voice. (He still has) But it was so cute. :)) We met at my place and watched a lot of movies. We were both so shy, and didn't know how to react. I was a nervous wreck, and the butterflies in my tummy went berserk so I burned a package of popcorn in my microwave and had to throw it out in the snow. (it was in January.) My kitchen smelled like a fireplace, and to make it even worse, my neighbor fired firework just outside my front door and made me jump up and scream. Then I wanted to make tea, but I was totally in my own thoughts, so I spilled the tea at my floor, under a table, and had to crawl around under the table to clean it up. We were mostly sitting at my couch, and none of us wanted to make the first move. But then we reached out for each other, and kissed.. <3 I still can't understand why he kissed me that day, as I went crazy and did crazy stuff most of the time. xD I guess it hasn't been better since then, but I have a lovely boyfriend that loves me even though. :)

Why trample on someone who's already laying down? The loss of his child because of a bad decision - being drunk while watching the babies - should hurt more than one could ever imagine. The fact he's drunk even though he should have watched the children, kinda makes me think, that he could have a problem with alcohol.

This incident could then lead to two possibilities.
1. He could be more addicted to alcohol to try to run away for the thoughts and the fact, that he killed his own child.
2. It could be a reason for him to try to stop his addiction, and be able to stay sober.

In the end, I think the mourning of a child should be punishment enough, because I am pretty sure he never meant to kill his child - even though he was drunk.

Hmm, it is going to be difficult to answer, as I don't want to forget something, nor write the answer too long. xD

I guess one of the best things about living in Denmark, is all the great things we get for paying taxes. Our hospitals are free, doctor, emergency room, you get paid for going to school and our education is paid as well, free elder care, retired people get money from the government too, if you loose your job, you'll get paid from the government until you find a new job and a lot of other great things.

The bad is that you have to pay at least 50% of your income, and some people are abusing the system by getting services they are not entitled.

We have a lot of green woods and beaches.our coastline is very long - it's the same as to Vest India from Denmark, as I've heard.

The danish people are very openminded to minorities, such as people with a different sexuality, life style or any different way of being. Specially when it comes to gay-people, as we were the first country to let homosexual people get in a registered partnership.

But even though we are large when it comes to being different, you have to follow the "jante law" which is an unwritten law everybody knows about. "Do not think you are better than us" is basically what it is preaching, so if you brag or like yourself a little too much, many people would not like you. That's the extreme opposite of the american way of living and the american dream. I seriously hate the jantelaw, as I think it is a bit of a straitjacket to the population. But it have become better than it was before. :)

I like the fact that we get snowy winters, but not for a long time, as in Norway and Sweden. - Just enough to enjoy it without it being for too long.
But the Danish summers are just a little bit too cold, and it rains toooooooooo often here in Denmark. You have to permanently wear rain coats. (well, okay I exaggerated a bit, but I guess you get my point) xD

I like the fact that we are a very small country but even though we are a little population, we still have a lot of different dialects. They are beginning to disappear, which I think is a shame. I myself speak the southern dialect "sønderysk" but I prefer to speak the "normal" danish called "rigsdansk." I counted dialects, but there might be more or less.

Well, if there is something I've forgotten, or there is something you want to know, just write a question, and I'll answer. :))

I like so many things about Denmark, but of course you can't like it all. But I am proud of being Danish and will always be. :))

I would say Donald Duck. Mostly because he is egoistic, angry and annoying.
But on the other hand, that's what makes him interesting or funny. He is pretty unlucky too, because he apparently was born under a star that was cursed to make him unlucky. So it's fun both to see how he struggles with all the unlucky things that happens to him, and sometimes feel pity for him. Other times I hate him for being such an ass.

Thanks for the question!

Well, it's not that I don't like your question, but I dislike this "weird-something" because in the end, everybody is weird. We are so many people on the planet, so I believe that at least one person might have the same kind of "weirdness-combination" that I have. :)

But, well, I'll try anyway. :)

I don't drink soda with sugar in it.

I have to check my bike a few times before I can enter my door to my mini-apartment.

I can't sleep without my earplugs.

When I do something like eating candy, drinking from a cup, touch something, I prefer to do it 2, 4 or 8 times. It's not that I can't do it without doing it that many times, but I feel some kind of discomfort if I dont. :)

I folk, der er så negative, I skulle prøve at se hvilke forbedringer de har lavet. Nu kan man se hvem der smilede eller kommenterede ens kommentar, hvilket jeg finder super nice. Det kunne man ikke før.

Når I lige har vænnet jer til det, så tror jeg, at I vil komme til at elske det. :o)

Man snakker med, og nyder at der endelig sker noget, for jeg plejer som regel at kede mig i toget.

Har tit haft nogle mystiske samtaler med folk i toget, når jeg skulle hjem fra Ry eller tilbage til Ry næsten hver weekend.

Har haft en samtale med en gammel stofmisbruger, der ikke havde penge nok til billetten og ville have mig til at være vagthund, så hun kunne gemme sig på toilettet. Anede seriøst ikke hvad jeg skulle gøre der. xD Hun sagde konstant hun var clean, hvilket hun sikkert også var, men hendes frontallapper måtte eddermugme have taget skade!

Og da jeg fik en lang samtale med en ældre herre om hans tidligere arbejdsliv som sælger.

Og da jeg diskuterede poesi, kunst og musik med en herre på måske 35 eller noget. Han havde en guitar med.

Men bare tag og snak med menneskene, og jeg lover dig for, at du nok skal få en uforglemmelig togtur. Spørg du lidt ind til hans afrikanske kultur, og violá! Så skal det sikkert nok blive spændende. ;)

I dont care as long as my presents isn't in the telephone box a well! ;))

I think we should leave them alone for the time being. It's bad as it is, and hurtful for both Katie, Tom and their daughter. By commenting on it and the magazines putting it on the front pages all the time, makes it even worse. Even though they are celebrities, they are still human.

- But sometimes humor can make the worst things easier to deal with. :) as long as it is not too personal. :) will watch your cartoon tomorrow, when I am more awake. x)

Der er forskel på at have anoreksi og at sulte sig i en måned, fordi man hurtigt vil tabe sig.

Forskellen ligger i, at dem der sulter sig selv som en underlig kur, kan stoppe igen, og ikke nødvendigvis bruger alle deres vågne timer på at tænke på mad, vægt, kalorier og træning. Jeg ønsker end ikke for min værste fjende, at vedkommende for anoreksi. Jeg taler her af erfaring. DOG skal du dog vide, at risikoen for, at du får anoreksi er stor, hvis du lige pludselig kan se, at kiloene rasler af dig. Det er sket for mange før, at en simpel "kur" blev til anoreksi. Du bliver høj og afhængig af, at du taber dig, fordi du føler du bliver smukkere og får flere komplimenter for dit vægttab.

Jeg fik anoreksi da jeg var 13-14 år, or gradvist eskalerede det så til jeg vejede 34 kilo. Det er stadig en kamp, man skal kæmpe med sig selv HVER dag, for at få sig selv til at spise nok og ikke få lysten til at sulte sig selv eller motionere helt ekstremt. Selv efter så mange år, med op og nedture og tilbagefald.

Du fucker også dit stofskifte totalt op. Du tager på af bare at kigge på mad. Din krop går i sulteposition, og optager derfor så meget af din mad, som muligt for at kunne overleve. Når du så igen spiser mere, vil din krop derfor optage al energien i maden, og først stoppe med det pjat, når den kan se at indtaget af mad er stabilt igen. Dvs at de kilo du taber, vil du højst sandsynligvis tage på liges hurtigt igen.

Dit blodsukker vil blive ekstremt lavt, og du vil blive koncentreret og derved også have svært ved at huske. Det er fordi din hjerne er det eneste organ, der lever på sukker/kulhydrat. Det svækker din indlæring og hvis du er under uddannelse eller går i skole af en eller anden art, vil du få svært ved at følge med. Det gør det heller ikke lettere at lære, når alle ens tanker går på mad og motion.
I og med at du heller ikke får den rette mængde fedt, kan du affede din hjerne, som også den vej kan tage varigt skade.

Nu ved jeg så ikke, hvor gammel du er, men du kan blive steril af at sulte dig selv af anoreksi, hvis du endnu ikke har fået din menstruation (og du er en pige, naturligvis!)
Dit hår bliver tynd og grimt, og din hud tør. Du kommer til at fryse som en sindssyg, og dine tænder bliver dårlige. Specielt hvis du har anoreksi kombineret med bulimi. Din krop begynder at tage på dine fedtdepoter, og når der ikke længere er mere fedt, så "æder" din krop ligeså langsomt dine muskler. Denne process udskiller et giftstof, ketoner, som eftersigende skulle lugte ligesom neglelak eller et eller andet grumt.

Da du heller ikke får de rigtige mineraler og vitaminer skal man så lige lægge en masse andre gener til.
De fleste kan løses med en vitaminpille, men A,D,E og K vitamin skal man have fedt til at optage. Ergo - mad. Det er bla nogle af de vitaminer, som gør en ekstrem træt ved underskud. Og calcium og magnesium skal bruge D vitamin for at dine knogler kan optage dem. Hvis du ikke sørger for dette, kan du få knogleskørhed i en tidlig alder. Og al den calcium du optager forbliver i blodet, og kan senere hen faktisk give åreforkalkning.

Hvis du befinder dig i et støjende miljø dagligt, og du ikke får de rigtige vitaminer, er risikoen for tinnitus eller nedsat hørelse også større, da dine fimrehår i ørerne ikke bliver genoprettet ved mangel på bla. magnesium og kalium. (Taler af erfaring!)

Dine led og øjne vil kunne tage skade. De har brug for en mindre mængde fedt hver dag for at vedligeholdes. Så jep, du kan også få synsnedsættelse og slidgigt.

Go girl, go go... Fortsæt du bare, og du får smadret din krop fuldstændig. Jeg vil anbefale dig en kur på ca 30-40% kulhydrat i din kost, 20% fedt og 40-50% protein, og så gå ned i kalorier. 800 kalorier er maksimum for nedsættelse af kalorier, for at din krop kan holde til det. 1200 kalorier er det, så plejer at være det bedste, for at du får et sundt vægttab. Spis grove kulhydrater, som rugbrød, frugt og grønt, da de ikke optages så hurtigt i blodet og bliver omdannet til fedt. Spis godt med protein, da det sætter gang i forbrændingen, og spis gerne en lille håndfuld mandler, da det hjælper med at forbrænde fedt om maven, og samtidig sørger for, at du får nok fedt til at optage vitaminer og holde din krop ved lige.

Det blev et langt svar, men følte lige jeg skulle ud med det! For du er for dum, hvis du bevidst vælger at sulte dig.

When people can't sing. Oh, that hurts my ears.. And then nails down a blackboard, and when people cut their plate with their knife. Oh, just by visualizing it now, it literally hurts, like ants under my skin. Urgh!

If every person was writing nice thinks and thought about what they posted on facebook, the "fuck you" buttom wouldn't have to be invented.

Some people write shit about other persons, and make a fool out of them public. That's the lowest thing one can do to another person. Even though they did something wrong. Instead of making fun of another, then take the discussion together and try to solve it.

Writing shit doesn't solve anything. I'll just make it worse. Clicking a "fuck you" buttom will make the conflict even, eeeeven worse. So maybe that's a bad idea.

I once, without knowing why, stabbed a ladybug with a toy gun, called a "hundeproppistol aka translated literally to "dog plug pistol." When you pull the trigger it says a loud "bang!" and the plug is coming out.
I suddenly felt the urge to use it as the plug. 5 seconds later I felt miserable, when I realized that I killed that lady bug for no reason.

I was a crazy psychopath as a child. xD

I used to do. I once played the cornet (some sort of mini-trumpet) for 3 years when I was about 9-10 years to 12-13 years old. (I can't remember)
I was very good, and I still remember with pride, that my teacher wanted me to show the other students that had been playing 1 year more than me, how to play the high-high C. (Like 2 octaves over the low c, we were used to play. (okay, I don't have that much theoretical information about music, sorry, but I can just hear what's right and wrong while playing) And that was vey difficult, as you had to place your mouth on one particular place and blow not too much not too little air into it. I was a newbie, and had only played for under a year.
I guess I should have continued playing, but I got a brace on, and it hurt like hell every time I had to place to cornet to my lips and press it agains my brace. :(

And I once played a flute. (Blokfløjte?) How the f*ck du you say that in english? Anyways, I only played that for 1 year but I still use my flute to find the right tune when I sing. If I have to start at a C, I'll play a C on my flute. :)

But I like to sing, and I've been singing in a choir for 4 years when I was 12-16. I learned a lot, as the choir I sang in was on of Denmark's best girl choirs. We were on tour 2 times - one time i Norway - Stavanger, and another time in USA - florida. I didn't join the choir for the singing at first, but because I had the most wonderful friends there, and was enjoying every moment.

I don't know, to some point I think it's a great idea to honor their grandparents or grand-grandparents, and to show that nothing is forgotten, we will always remember how much they suffered.
On the other hand, I think it's like keep thinking about the bad things that happened instead of thinking forward and remember all the great things that happened in their lives. And beside that, it's like making them the prisoners instead of honor their names and who they actually were.

Well, it often get hand in hand with a creative mind. You know, the lefties, are always right-brained.

I like art, music, poetry, movies, photographs and so on, and I am pretty good at some of the stuff.

When I write or draw, I always end up with ink on my hand, as I touch what I drew or wrote, with the side of my hand. I never learned how to use a can opener before the age of 12, because I always asked someone right handed to do it. When I peel a carrot or a potato, I always peel away from my body, not into my body. (You know, that movement, difficult to explain) but that makes it slower to peel. When I use a scissor, It sometimes, if it's not a scissor made to left handed people, won't cut, or the cut is not very sharp.

But even though there is computer mouses to left handed people, I might have learned myself how to use my right hand when I use a mouse, and when I eat I put the knife in the right hand too. So it's not everything I do with my left hand, but I prefer to use my left hand.

My sister is left-handed to, and same goes for my mothers brother, but then there is not another person in my family that is lefthanded. I've read that twins often is left handed, because the birth is very rough and they don't get enough oxygen to the brain, and that could trigger to be a left handed person. My sister and I is not twins, but both of us was born with the umbilical cord around our neck. Her was two times around, mine was 3 times. It was pretty bad, and we both had to get oxygen masks on afterward. My mother showed me a picture when I was struggling with the mask, and with my arms and legs cramped up, because I didn't wanted that mask on. So maybe that have triggered us to be left handed, but that's just a theory. :)