I can completely relate, and the fact of the matter is that ever woman has "bad hair days" whether you have straight, kinky, wavy, or loc'd hair. So dont fret girlfriend. Dont ever feel obligated to compare yourself to others standards of beauty. This life is too short, so honey as long as you feel and believe you are beautiful, that is all that matters. You cant and wont be able to please everybody, nor should you want to. Thats the beauty of being natural. Having that unique beauty that isn't commonly scene.

One love sis.

~keep it real beautiful