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what would you want him to do when he has a new friend of the opposite sex? whatever that is, do it.
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nope. hecka disrespectful. it's one thing to wear a gift from an ex, but the inscription puts it in a whole 'nother league.
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huh? you can't be a fan because you got a man? GTFOH. he's being ridiculous.
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possibly. still locking that down.
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be yourself, be respectful. have something to talk about, so you don't sit there answering a million questions about yourself, if she's even all that interested.
ive met several moms. only one was all up on me. everybody else was "hey, how you doing?" a couple questions, then off to mind their biz or general topics. -
"How do I snap out of this feeling? Where should I begin?"
therapist. not being funny. if you're having trouble finding motivation to do small things, you're dilemma isn't a quick-fix. -
you have choices, always. you just may not like the consequences of such. your parents ways do not have to be your ways. unless, of course they are footing the bill.
i don't understand why you can't save money and have a steady income? is working hard and saving money no longer a core staple of haitian culture? -
same? none. NYC can not be duplicated. part of what makes it what it is, is the scale/size.
there are pockets of progressive people everywhere, just a matter of finding where you fit.
I love Dallas and Houston. Of course, ATL. Charlotte makes a lot of lists too. I'll see for myself next month.
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That's unfortuante he feels that way about the kid. His romantic relationship status with you should have nothing to do with how he feels about the kid. Don't be guilt-tripped. The type of person who uses a child as leverage isn't all that invested in the kid's best interest (that goes for men and women.) Is sad and petty. There's no reasoning with that.
Continue to co-parent. Don't re-ignite a relationship unless you actually want to.
No, you have nothing to feel bad about. You didn't suggest he take it to the point that it would change how he felt about the kid. That's ON HIM. -
Not to be flippant: but get a job and move back out.
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Just accept it. It's not diamonds, it's dinner and beer. It's ticked him off. Was it worthwhile to assert your independence?
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he emailed you the same night. likely so. email him back saying it would be good to see him again.
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you're so very welcome. glad you took a chance ON YOU!!!! keep up the good work.
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pt2/2: and the phone line is still on. He'll text me once every few days to say hello. I cant be his friend or be cool with him right now. Whats the best way to approach this civilly with him?
you can't force him to turn it off. ask again. see it he goes along with it. if you're not paying for it or using it, is it really a problem?
otherwise, you're not obligated to speak to him.
this is a CLASSIC relationship mistake. unless you're married, keep your ish in your name only. -
ive read the reports. i know two people who've moved to ATL in the last year. everybody else i know is chillin with no real plans to move.
you'll have to examine the studies on this one for yourself. it's mot something ive investigated or even read up on in depth -
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Nah. It's a matter of are they doing what they love, are they compensated what they believe is fair, and are they appreciated at work.
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He's testing the waters. See if you respond. That's all. Take it with a grain of salt. he thinks its okay because so many ppl think it is and have allowed him to do it.
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Demetria Lucas’s Bio
Lucas is the author of A BELLE IN BROOKLYN: The Go-to-Girl for Advice on Living Your Best Single Life (Atria, June 2011)
